Hey guys, I've been using this technique lately and it's been working incredibly almost every girl I approach, with a n-close over 70% of the time. This is basically what you do...

1. Make eye contact with the girl, wait about 3 seconds and then approach the girl

2. Go up to her and say, "Hey, I just couldn't take my eyes off you, so I had to come say hi."

3. At this point she's either flattered or interested in what's going on and will usually ask my my name.

4. Then you mention something like, "I've seen you before, just can't remember where, but I remember kicking myself bc I didn't come say hi last time and I figured I would now."

5. She's usually giggling, blushing, feels like I'm being sincere and she's the only girl in the world.

6. I chat with her for a bit, usually interesting funny convo, until I ask her, "Who's the lucky guy." Now I've realized asking this question is pretty effective bc it let's her know your intentions from the get go, but doesn't establish and ultimatum like the question, "do you have a boyfriend" may do.

7. I'll chat with her for a bit more, again funny, flirtatious chat.

8. This is probably the key point, I'll mention at one point or another that I just got out of a relationship. This tells her that I'm not a player and that I haven't done this to a few other girls. I think it's something that I was missing in the past, and girls left feeling sweet and beautiful, but the next day it left a sour feeling in their mouths or a negative curiosity about me.

9. I'll ask her for her number bc I want to see her again.

10. While taking down her number, I'll say something like, "I hope this isn't one of those numbers I save in her and won't respond because I'm not looking for someone to be nice to met out of pitty", or "only give me your number if you plan on responding because I hate flaky business (with a chuckle)"

I can call that my 10 step technique.

Try it and let me know what you think.

Good shit, I'll try it Monday and will get back to you.

Seems a bit too... hmm... pick-up-y if you get what I'm saying.

This might be great for a direct approach in Day Game but doesn't seem like it would work at a bar or night club where girls get chumps stumbling up to them with weak direct approaches all night (not saying this one is weak by any means, just that every hot girl is EXPECTING this conversation from at least 5 guys per night out.)

I am heading out to the club tonight so I guess I'll give it a try. I'm not a fan of direct approaches at night but we'll see.

- Stylite

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I'm assuming this is a daygame approach???

Also at what point exactly do you bring in the whole relationship part and how do you follow up with it, basically how does this tie in to the whole conversatioN??

And with this being a lie, what if she asks you about it later?

Thanks dude. Will def try. I've tried this number but without a number close. A girl friend of mine said the best compliment is quick and to the point without pick-up-y intentions. Anyway I will let you know how it goes.

Seems like how I used to be before getting into the pick up artist business. The only problem about this approach is that you are giving a girl too much and she will seem like she has you in her back pocket. I never want to seem like im in a girls back pocket, I would never compliment her right away, especially like Stylite said, as it would just be average, she probably gets that all the time and she will flake, even if you mention don't flake, your seeming like that average guy, what are you expecting from her more then anyone else? Other guys probably do this all the time, so she wont remember you more then them. This could work on HB6-7's probably or lower, I highly doubt, that this would come close to working with a HB8-10. The only time I would even CONSIDER giving a girl a compliment is if she gave me one, and mine would still be a less direct compliment, but hey it seems good for some, and each prefers something different. Good luck.

Well this is how I take it. I actually think it's also the most crucial point in the entire discussion and why I've had success escalate from the initial meet to getting the first date.

One, you're not lieing because you're saying I recently broke up, to you recently can be a couple of years or a couple of weeks. Second, if she brings it up later, sure just say you were dating a girl and it didn't work out and you rather not talk about it, and you've since moved on. That's all it takes. It's what I told to the three girls I went out with this week and they just didn't ask again.

I do this for predominantly two reasons. One, it shows that I'm not a player bc I would have been busy in a relationship, two, it shows that I can be a committed, loyal guy, and that I'm desired by woman is a long-term suiter, which in itself displays DHV.

And to make it tie into the relationship, around the time the girls giving me her number I'll say something like, "Hey, this is usually not me, I was just feeling a bit wild/crazy today, I actually just got out of a relationship so I'm not sure if this is the appropriate way to appraoch someone". Just build on that.

BTW it's still working like a charm, if the girls single 100% of the time I get her number and about 4 in 5 will reply. I've gone out on 3 dates already, made out with all three and I'm seeing them all again soon, one which I saw tonight

I've been in the pickup game for 4 years. This whole talk about giving a girl too much, flattering her too much, it's all silly talk to me. You just have to do everything in moderation and it also depends immensely on your tone and expression when you're complementing her. It's good to be chivilarous, charming, they really appreciate that bc I makes them feel special. Tell me which girl in her right mind (during day game) would have the bravery to go out complete stranger she doesn't even know bc he came up being very neutral and indirect. It'll be too confusing for her and she'll chicken out. Again, that's my city... their all cowards and change their mind after consulting with their friends. I.e., like the girl I saw tonight, I met her friend and she's like I originally was telling her not to go out with you bc you were just a random guy off the street, but I'm glad she did bc you're a really cool guy. This is a regular thing that happens.

Guys don't approach girls, at least not in my city (Ottawa), so their not ever use to me when I approach them. I guess it may be different if you live elsewhere.

You're right it's been working with so much success on HB 6's and 7's, but really, the 8-10s all have fucking bf's in this city. It's pathetic. But I've gotten two girls which were at least an 8, so it does work for me.

I've come to realize that you can't be this super confident guy who knows all the right things to say. You have to be shy on purpose, yet not a pussy. It's like being a brave shy guy, and again that's the way it is in my city and every environment is different. I've tried 100s of other techniques and this one is seriously like magic for me lately, I run this routine about 10 times a day, and I'm getting 100% of the numbers of the girls I'm approaching who are single, and occassionally if they're taken/seeing someone/bf, but I don't like waisting my time with that shit.

As you said, everyone has a different style, but essentially it's important to be versatile and not rely that heavily on the DHV shit, that can be accomplished on the date.

And BTW this is day game material, that's where I excel.

And another point just to show you how effective it is.

After I mention my first line of, "I couldn't take my eyes off you...", about 50% of the girls (if single) are so flattered and usually ask me what my name is. An easy indication their at least intrigued.

Also,

When I ask, "Who's the lucky guy", and again if single, will ask me "Who's the lucky girl" or "Do you have a gf", and that easily indicates that this girl is seriously into me.

And finally, when I ask at the end if she's going to respond when I text, it really tells me if she's into me at this point bc if she smiles and sounds sincerely interesting in hearing from me, I know it's game on.

Gonna give it a try. looks good for daytime approach.

It's not lying, it's flirting. Besides if she does ask later it could be brushed off easily, I imagine, by just saying you prefer not to talk about past relationships. I doubt she's likely to keep pushing after that.

Went sarging again yesterday, came home with 5 numbers using this technique once again.

1. HB7, 18 year old slut that lives on res
2. HB7, Have a date with her Sunday pre Super Bowl obviously :p
3. HB8, Gorgeous half Asian girl, meeting her next week
4. HB7, Coffee shop girl getting off work

And the highlight of the night...

5. HB9, Law school student and insanely gorgeous, seemed sincerely into me, but you never know

I went sarging with my best sarging buddy and he was watching this all in amazement. All these girls were single and gave me their numbers, the other 10 I approached had BFs so I just walked away.

Again guys, this technique works like a charm... I've figured out the key point in the approach and it's that you are romantic and charming. I've used all kinds of openers today like,

"I just noticed you and thought you were lovely and wanted to say hi"

"I saw you in the elevator earlier and I really liked your style"

"I saw you a week ago and I was kicking myself in the foot because I didn't come say hi and didn't want to miss this opportunity this time."

I'm telling you guys, if you want success go with this technique. I'm using these openers followed by the other points I mentioned.

1. HB7, Australian blonde with a cool personality, just met her and hung out for like 45 minutes. We're texting as I write this.
2. HB7, Cute brunette studying
3. HB8, Hot dirty blonde studying
4. HB8, Fucking amazingly adorable Spanish girl. I went right in to her class while the teacher was having a lesson and opened. Big lecture hall so I didn't draw too much attention.
5. HB9, not even 30 minutes ago walking home she walked by me and I went for it. I'm still going nuts over this girl, one of the hottest girls numbers I've gotten in a while.

I'm missing one more. My phone is so packed with girls I just started to delete girls I don't want anymore.

Guys, run this technique if you've been struggling for the last little bit.

Agreed

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