So today in class there was a HB sitting beside me. I could see from the side of my eye that she looked at me a couple of times. I was going for the opener but pussied out. I just couldn't think of a good opener, any help for a good opener and how to keep the convo going?

I'm 18, first year at university and seriously need to lose my virginity!

Your not gonna loose your virginity if you have trouble opening. Especially a girl that sits right next to you in class. You could have just said "hey" or "how is it going" or if you wanted to be funny you could have said "Hey, first day in class."

BTW, opening girls will only get you 10 % there. The rest which is mid game and end game is even harder then opening.

If you have troubles opening that usually comes from AA, you need to work on your approach anxiety before going further otherwise you will carry that negative energy with you at all time.
Beofore thinking about opening work on you aa first,ok? I promise you things will go much smoother after that.

This is what I do.
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Take care.

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I agree with FCGame.. You can have tons of openers,but if you havent gotten over your AA its pretty much all for Naught! CAUSE IF YOU OPEN AND GET REJECTED ITS GONA INCREASE YOUR AA! think about it. now i can relatE to the university part and im also 18. Lol plus i think youre putting way too much pressure on yaself over losing your virginity,it'll come bro. Just concentrate on ya AA for now,one thing at a time.
With that being said,you cant let a HB sit next to you and not talk to her.. Im not sayin game her,just talk to her like u talk to your friends or folks.Shes just another chick,get out of your head! you cud talk about class and then transition to personal questions, plus it'll help you with your AA.
Goodluck bro!

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Hey there,

I would have to say the easiest way to open in this situation, is extremely early. The later the act the more difficult it will be, especially for someone who has problem with openers. As soon as you see her sit down, or as soon as you sit down, turn to her, really friendly and say 'Hi there I'm 'bob' nice to meet you' *big confident smile*. This makes everything so much easier, you don't need to sit there nervously cooking over how to open.

As you are going to be sitting next to her for the next hour or so, it makes perfect sense for you to say hello to her.... no pressure. I think this is a golden opportunity to build contact with your target, so simple and easy! *note to self, must go to university*

Hope this helps you dude,


Note: first post, about to write an introduction, just couldn't resist answering this :p

Thanks for the tips and yeah my AA is pretty bad at times. I start stuttering a little when nervous and for some reason I think too much before my opener.

Id advise u to just walk around campus saying 'hi' to people (guys and girls) and then do the odd situational opener. Yesterday i number closed on campus.. I still get AA from time to time but n0t the bad freeze out AA,and Im also a freshman this year. Heres how it went.
WHERE : Uni Campus
PLAYER : Dusty an 18 year old uni freshman.very social and sarcastic lol.looking to improve hes game and get rid of every lil ray of AA he's got.
MISSION : to open and close a few HB's,decrease my AA and kick the year off with a bang!
TARGETS : Uni HB's..
THOUGHTS PRIOR TO APPROACH : a blend of Anxiety and excitement!
I was just walking around campus (no pressure) greeting and using direct openers,shifting from set to set,till i saw a 2 set walking my way (2 HB's 7&8).
Me : 'hey guys.. Can u guys maybe direct me to the library?'
HB8 : 'Freshmannn?'
Me : 'haha pretty much..'
HB7 to 8 : 'Hahaha O.M.G do you remember our freshman year? EPIC!'
HB8 : 'Hahaha.. It Didnt look like we're gona Graduate!'
HB7 : 'yeah ,but here we are!!'
Me : 'uhm yep here you are,you havent graduated yet.. Now that library?'
HB8 : 'aawwh.. Haha.. In the left wing.. Next to that science class,u cant miss it'
-as she points to the building,i notice she go this huge ring on her finger-
Me : 'thanx and u may wana be careful with that.. You could blind some1' -i grab her hand (kino) to check out the ring,and she complies-
HB8 : 'got it from my grandma..' -her voice tone kinda dropd to real soft-
HB7 : 'get this she never takes off..'
HB8 : 'i can't haha'
Me : '..cute.. so shes one of those.. Materialistic insecure girls.. Scared it may fit some1else better'
HB8 : 'Im not.. Ur mean!'
Me : 'haha.. Let me dash,btw i didnt get ur names.. Im Dusty'
- they introduce themself-
Me : 'me and some sophmore buddies of mine is throwin this party on Fry,so are u girls game? Oh and no FRATS!'
-they laugh and go 'sure why not' we exchange numbers-
thats my first number close on campus the HB8 also added me on facebook lastnight.shes a possible f-close the amount of IOI's i got from her in that short time frame was staggering. All and all i think i did pretty well.did something like 12 approaches and only time i went for the number i got it. Lol i got 2

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Thats part of the issue, you are thinking it too much and it should come natural. Think about your type of game, since you are starting don't be too direct.

What do you think about " Hi, I was wondering if you could help me out with something, which excuse should I use to start a conversation with you? " You can use it without the could help me out part and you can play it in many ways

- I can hear you guys typing this on your computer- Your welcome

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