Welcome in the day game motivational thread (or day game challenge, you chose). The goal of this thread is to improve our day game approaches. Here's how this works.

Definitions.
Day Game Approach = opening a total stranger in the streets/mall/store... and asking for a number.
These are the only approaches we'll consider as approaches! That means:
- No night game here.
- She has to be a total stranger.
- It doesn't count if you don't ask for the number.

Points.
Indirect opener: 1pt
Direct opener: 2pt
Rejection: 1pt
Number close: 2pt (check if legit numbers before posting)
Total by adding the points.

That means:
Indirect number close: 3pts
Direct number close: 4pts
Indirect rejection: 2pts
Indirect number close: 3pts

Example of field report.
Each field report should follow this pattern:

Quote:

Context:
Explain here where you were when you approached, how you pushed yourself to approach, what was going into your mind... how was the girl when you saw her...

Field Report:
Write your report here, explain the opener, the reaction, write the interaction.

Lessons:
What have you learned from this experience?

Points: 3



How can I enter this challenge?
This thread is a motivational thread to allow us to get better at day game. It's open to anybody who wants to improve their approach. Just post your first field report to enter the challenge. If your intentions are not genuine, please refrain from posting! If your already good at day game, please refrain from posting! If you don't suffer from any approach anxiety at all, please refrain from posting! We want rejections. We want the bliss of a first successful direct approach. We want improvement. Again, if your intentions are not genuine, please refrain from posting!

Only field reports from now on in this thread! Smile

Special Thanks to AFC Daniel for Organizing this.

Where:Mall
How: Went for the girls I found attractive.
Thoughts: Nervous and worried about rejection.
Target: Dark Haired Tall HB 8

Mall approach 1 out of 6. I could have approached more in the time but I did not notice many girls that I was physically attractive to. Some looked like they were in high school or too young. I really struggle with telling ages of white girls. Which is my primary type of female I am attracted to. Most of the rejections I thought would be harsh but most were just them saying they had a boyfriend or were not interested. I did not really push the interaction further as I noticed their body language seemed off like they had to go.

I saw this girl coming out of Hot Topic but I waited for her to pass me before I went from behind then stepped right in front of her but gave some distance as to not impose too much too soon. I basically went direct and said how she was absolutely stunning. She actually smiled and turned slightly red it was quite cute. I am into pale white girls after all lol. She seemed a little nervous but thanked me. She looked like she was going to walk off after but I asked her about herself. I found out she went to the college I used to go to and we talked about that. I joked around with her a little because her major had something to do with the environment so I accused her of being a hippy. We talked more and had similar interests mostly with music. This was going on while we were walking around the mall. Dunno if this counts as an insta-date. Eventually things died down a little. I decided to eject but to get her number first. I told her I had to go but I wanted to see her again and asked for her number. I didn’t expect this to work but what the hell only way to know is find out. I gave my number to her and told her to miscall me. Got the number, gave her a hug then parted ways. I was really scared going in for the hug but went for it there wasn’t much resistance or awkwardness coming from her which gave me confidence.

Points:
5 Direct Rejections: 15 pts
1 Number Close: 4 pts
19 pts

I'm in, i'll start tonight, or tomorrow.

I'm definitely not going to focus on just getting numbers though

Yea I just go for SNL these days, forces you to game her better and push the boundaries more. A monkey can number close.

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It came to me in a drreeeaaammmm

Milo glad to have you and your muscles aboard.

Good for you Vic props.

Where:Marshalls and Target after work
How: Went for the girls I found attractive.
Thoughts: Nervous and worried that they are with boyfriends or mom. Since many HB's don't shop alone at these places.
Target: 2 set

Girls were in Marshalls, I just say "you girls are adorable, hi I'm ......" A lot of fluff talk about school, Christmas, there most memorable gifts, ugly Christmas sweaters, etc. 15-20 minutes later I try to number close the hotter one, but she suggests I add them on Facebook, I say I don't use Facebook. More talk then I just tell them I have to go.

Target: HB 8 at Target (the store)

Girl wearing spandex (man I love those) at cleaning items isle. I just go up and say I thought she was beautiful. A little talk about Xmas, says she's busy and studies biochemistry. She showed no IOI's and gave very short answers. Even said she doesn't go out. She didn't make eye contact much and I just said nice to meet you have a Merry Christmas. I Didn't want to waste any more time in that situation. I should have teased her about being a boring person, but it's cool.

Points:
2 Direct Rejections: 6 points

This is too good. I have to get in on this. I'm wary to do it here on base (99% of females here are Gunny's daughters, Marine wives or Marines...) but to hell with it. I don't care. It'll still be fun. lol

If nothing else at all, I'm going to visit family in Ky in a week-ish...a US Marine in Ky?...should be fish in a barrel.

Ok AA isnt such a HUGE problem for me anymore but its still a problem none-the-less.. More so in Day game (im relatively new to day game)
so heres how it went down!

Where : The V&A Waterfront Mall
i was waiting for my mom to finish Shopping,so i thought it would be a good idea to run some game. (and trying to kill my daygame AA)
How : by approaching HB 8 to 10.

Thoughts Prior to Approach : Nervous of getting rejected (not that its a bigdeal,but a guy wana succeed lol who doesnt)

Target 1 OF 2 : HB9 Brunette with Reading glasses on and bod like Blake Lively lol.
So im coming in as shes leaving.

Me : hey sorry.. Do you by any chance know of a good bookshop in here? (i asked that question,simply bcz of the reading glasses).. Im waitin for my mom to finish SHO-PPING.. so i wana go kill time"
She : "Haha Shame.. Guys in Malls!" so as shes explaining where, i start to smile.
She : uh what? i didnt eat anything?
Me : nah ya teeth is fine.. Haha you just sound lik those Garmin GPS girls haha
She : hahaha here im tryina help you and u insult me?
Me : insult? if anything its a compliment, think about it they pick the girls with the most sexiest voices.
She : hahaha thanx then.. I guess?
Me : ok.let me go find that bookshop, so what do i have to do to hear that sexy voice again?

BANG #-close and she even throwed in her BBM pin. I walked away feeling like IM DALE ALMIGHTY!

The 2nd girl was also very friendly but b4 i could #-close her insecure prick of a bf,came to gaurd hes territory. So thats 1 otha 2 but zero rejection. That garmin gps line really works wonders for day game. I think you gota be ballsy though.

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The MORE you WANT it, the LESS your chances are of LOSING it! -Lol i dont know who said that so ima claim it.

So thats 3pts for indirect opener and #-close,the 2nd one dnt count seeing i didnt get around to ask her for it.Btw thats the only girls i approached,coz i had 2 take mother dearest home rite after that. Lol

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The MORE you WANT it, the LESS your chances are of LOSING it! -Lol i dont know who said that so ima claim it.

Where:Wal-Mart before work
How: Went for the girls I found attractive.
Thoughts: Nervous and worried that they are with boyfriends or mom. Since many HB's don't shop alone at these places.
Target: 2 set

Two women I would say HB 8's. As always i went direct by saying "this is random, but you girls are adorable" they were flattered. I discuss Christmas, tease them about there choice of lucky charms as a purchase(observational). More fluff talk, they are sisters, both with bf's, but i get there Facebook which to me is a fail since i don't even use Facebook really, but what can you do.

Target: HB 8 (spandex wearing, man i am a sucker for those)

Again i go direct and she is flattered. She's looking at coffee makers, so we talk about xmas and gifts. I tease her saying she looks bookish and must school around here(and i guessed right). then i tease her saying she must have just left the gym (she had spandex and sneakers and was about to go to the gym actually). So it was decent cold reading. then i ask what she does in free time, she tells me of a good bar. I ask for her number she says "i don't think my boyfriend would be too happy about that" then precedes by telling me to go to whatever bar it was on friday nights. So another fail.

My phone was on in my pocket and my buddy heard all of both approaches since i forgot to hang up on him before making the approaches and they were like one minute apart. He stayed on the phone. He was impressed and said I did everything well, so i got positive feedback from a spectator. Practice makes perfect I told him.

Points:
2 Direct Rejections: 6 points

i'm confident and good with girls once i meet them but very rarely approach random girls unless drunk, 2nd day since i started working on daygame, and in general using pua tactics.

Where : Westfield mall Los Angeles

Started day game quest, with the goal of mastering the art of each step quickly and quickly move to adding the next step. i decided to only approach girls that i'm interested in getting action from which are hi 7's and up, believe in having high standards not a believer in the old saying pussy is pussy haha.

Day 1: only had 20 minutes figured i would practice inital step of approach aka newbie misso, approached 4 girls and just asked them how to get to a bookstore in the mall, they all pointed me in the direction. Lessons garnered from experience 1. smile as you approach 2.think positive-law of attraction envison it going the way you want it and the whole thing goes better.

Day 2: read the post of guy that used gps mall opener, got the lines in my head set a goal to approach girls and use that routine, used it on 5 girls, 3 pointed me to bookstore and 2 did'nt know, didn't go for number close, learnt a couple of lessons realized easier to stop a girl while she was walking in open area then to approach in a cluttered area, saw improvement in every approach in line delivery confidence etc, after a couple of sets in mall decided to go outside mall and experiment using same routine on street spoke to a girl walking dog ang got pointed to bookstore in mall conversation was easier in fresh air, walked past bookshop and decided to actuallly try to improvise and game in bookshop, walked in saw an 8.5 looking through books

me: excuse me you look like a reader, maybe you can help me i'm looking to buy a book as a christmas present for a friend he's a major reader, and i always tease him about it thought it would be funny to get him a book, do you know of any books out that are currently hot on the market

her: she thinks for a second and says "you can get him a book diary"
me: is that a special book for readers to write down summaries of books read, sounds like something he could use (smile) where is that located?
her: yeah it's located.. you know you could also get him this bookv ... it's written in the 1900's by a women author he probably has'nt read this
me: (smile) is it written in old english haha that will throw him off a bit, (open book glance at it read for a second or two and say hey this book is actually pretty interesting!)
her: check this book out it's really girly would be funny as well
me: take it and casually looked it over and said "haha this is funny as well" decided that i dont want to look to needy so casually start moving over to other shelves, scanning slowly, walked around the various aisles for 5 minutes found another book, went back and saw she was on the phone so casually continued walking, came back 5 minutes later and went over to her and said "hey found this book think it's the perfect one, pointed to cover which said "be yourself, lose your freinds"( some stupid girly book)
her: haha thats funny i thought of two other books he might like
she shows them to me (ioi)they were funny but thought my book would be funnier and also wanted to show her that i valued my opinon. I realized enough ioi's number close time.

me:hey thanks for all the help, i have to get going now, btw what's your name?

her:emily,what's your name?

Me: ari, my freind throws these sick house parties, and he is always asking me to bring cute girls along with, give me your number and i will inform you of the next one

her:my number is ........ does he throw sick book parties!?!?

me: haha na this is a different friend, that friend i'm scared to hear what he does at night!

lessons learnt from that experience, approaching girls with conversation/opinon opener seems like an easier way to build rappaport and have a fun conversation. Another advantage of asking opinon is that their it's easier to keep conversation going

questions to you guys? have't tried using direct opener yet do you think that it's better to do so? if yes why? i would think that approaching and starting off in a casual manner and then being direct and saying alright i'm going to go... you seem like a really cool chick though we should grab a coffee sometime etc would work better?

Any ideas for a smooth coffee shop convo starter?

I realized that every girl i see now, my brain automatically starts trying to figure out ways to approach! freinds keep going and thou shall sow thy reap of thy harvest! haha

I always go direct. It shows your intentions right away. You just need to be able to lead into a good conversation after the initial approach, which takes practice. I don't bother with canned material anymore, but you can still go direct then lead into some canned material. Try the 3 second rule, where you just approach an HB as soon as you see her. This can help make the approach and conversation more natural.

Where: Mall after work
How: Went for the girls I found attractive.
Thoughts: None really, I was all about trying to get rid of AA.
Target: 2 set

My one success was my last approach. Two hb's, one like a 7.5 and one like an 8.5. There sitting at one of those benches in the mall. I just go direct as usual, and they get flattered. We talk about college and partying. They share stories with me like we went to high schools in the same conference. Then there girlfriend(hb8) and that chick's boyfriend comes in. I introduce myself to both and chat up the guy for like 10 minutes. I had a lot in common with him too. They leave then I talk two the 2 set for a little more then number close them both. I left the mall after this.

Points:
2 Direct Number Closes: 8 points
4 Direct Rejections (either they said thanks, ignored me since I'm a creeper , or were in high school so i just walked away):12 points

Total:20 points (my current record and I was in the mall for about a hour in a half, but i wasted time in GMC arguing supplements with the queers working in there to help first rid some AA)