Hey ladies I need a quick opinion on something. When at a bar, why do girls need to make an excuse when they're not interested in guys like "let's go to the bathroom" or "let's get shots". Why can't they just be like guys and say hey, we're not interested, thanks for coming over though. That's way more honest and open.

cause alot of guys tend to overreact and make a scene when their egos are shattered.

i'm a guy, but take that for what it's worth

I'm a dude but here is my input from the very mouths of many of the escorts, porn stars, and strippers that have worked for me. For the most part girls at the bar really are also looking for guys like you are looking for chicks. However if they are not really into you, they rather try to send you away the nicest way possible without hurting you or embarrassing you. And they do that by just avoiding you or leaving that scene.(bathroom) But if you are really pushy, then they will actually become a bitch and just dis you altogether. So it's just part of the game they play and something you just have to get used to. But don't let that scare you. If you actually start at one end of the bar. And introduce yourself to every girl on that bar one by one. You will actually get one of them that will keep convo with you and let you game her. Try it, you can't lose. If it has worked for me over 100 times, it can work for you at least once....LOL!

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Spot on guys!! Girls lie to spare your feelings.. Some guys really cant take rejection.. They either throw a fit or their whole attitude drops, (not opening any sets for the rest of the nite,or just go home) Lol a buddy of mine always said "A lie is just a great story, ruined by the truth" Note : Im not encouraging lying ,but some situations aint made for the truth.

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Actually that quote is from Barney stinson. LMAO

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I don't think it is the greatest opener to be honest. It DLV and shows that you're insecure about being rejected. Try to keep it light hearted and fun.

and to reply to the actual opener: Have you ever been in a situation where someone likes you and you don't like them back? It is very awkward. haha.

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Hmm ok once I get that response I think I'd spin it and say

"Wow, you girls must be so egotistical haha. It's not like getting rejected should ruin a guy's night you're just out to have fun." I was thinking it's DHV and shows you're not that interested in them, but maybe this isn't a good opener.