I have an awesome girl, but she is very stubbourn and the fact that im a footballer doesnt phase her she doesnt give a crap?

When we are together she is soo affectionate towards me but whne we arnt just seems like she dont care..

So where i have most girls eating out of my hand she just isnt we are now gf nd bf but she still just isnt making any effort.. i make nice plans she just stands me up or doesnt reply to me and leaves me hanging.... how do i get her keen.... i came down to spent a week with her which she knew but when i got down here she had changed her plans and ive only seen her once?

I text her last night saying i think she is messing me around and i dont like it after she flaked me again! and now she just wont reply to me at all?

i have propositioned her saying if i dont here from here by the time i got back to london then im going to assume we are over... and she still has not replied?


was this a good move or a bad one?

Suarez

its more of a good move then a bad move. You are never going to chase an interested girl away by showing indifference or dismissal, if she bails then she was on her way out anyway.

I would pay her less attention and focus on other woman, this will likely make her more interested as so far you don't seem like much of a challenge and she is taking you for granted.

Remember dood, after you have had sex with a girl and established initial attraction, rapport, connection etc. You can set boundaries and make demands to no downside as she is already invested in the relationship, if she isnt, she is gone anyway. Pay her less attention and see how she reacts, it isnt going to get worse and may likely get better.