...when you have no target.

I'm trying to be a more social guy, in hopes of gaining traits that will help me become a PUA...

It's kinda strange to me. im not used to it, but I do it just for the hell of being daring. I just started being a more social guy, but it's hard to keep up when nothing clicks in my head.

I haven't had much of an experience in life. I have lots of stories to tell ,but I dont know how to... make use of them.

Whats the point of this?
I want to know how I can keep a group interested so that I can build comfort and conversational skills. It sucks, feeling like you CAN open a set, but you don't know wth to do afterwards.

I suppose I can open up with stories, but I haven't really developed the ability to tell stories to strangers the same way I tell my firends.

I suppose, I can't get much here. If theres anything I could ask for, it's some stories from any one of you about your starting experience and how you developed your social life.

I've been doing this for about 2 weeks now, and I'm not sure if I'm growing fast enough. I'm capable of opening sets, I just don't bother because... I have not gotten the results that I'm expecting.

When I see PUA's open sets, they have this influence where they get into a set, and they get the group their in interested enough to the point where they don't want him to leave becasue they were that much into him.

now, the only people i'm capable of talking to for now, are people I see at school....

I REALLY REALLY REALLY want to try this elsewhere. But this is all thats available to me. i've been really buzy, but I'm seriously looking into becoming a PUA.

I know about the attraction phase.. but I'm not sure why it's coming across. Mann, this is frustrating.

OK. I'm taking it that you have not read Mystery's book yet...


The reason I say this is because if you have, then you would not have these types of questions.

I just got off the phone with this one girl... so I'm gonna be nice to a fellow kindred....

Get this book and read it. Not just once, read it a few times.

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You need to study!

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yes i read listen online there are podcast now that free on i tunes you might not learn that much of the podcasts but every little helps as the phrase goes. invest in the books dvd and audio books and browse this site daily and read what the people have to say there are alof of really clever people on here

If you want to feel like a more sociable guy, do what novelists do: observe.
Know whos who in popular culture, know things around your city etc etc.
You should also work on some inner game techniques, as others have said I would strongly suggest reading the Mystery Method multiple times. As well when you learn more try to keep the knowledge in small chunks. Know the difference between useful and useless knowledge.

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Being social also requires you to just be knowledge about stuff. like it says in the book and other places, read newspapers, read interesting articles. Your naturally more social if you just have more things to talk about. But for sure you should read the mystery method like advised above.

What helps in school is to feel like you own the school and everyone in it. Every girl belongs to you and every girl likes you. YOu never worry about social circles and getting in with who is popular, why because you are the most popular you are the fucking man and this is your school! never worry about interrupting people who are in thier social circle, never worry about any social order that is taking place, never worry about not interrupting jocks while they are talking in class. YOu are just here to take ground, and you don't care about what was established before you got there, you are starting a new order. Then also you need the assumption that every person that gets to know you will like you, that what I do before I say something in (im college) class I always think to myslef " everybody here likes me, im fucking man" and therefore I say it loud and clear.

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