So yesterday I was out at this club with my friend and we were chatting in a room that has a few tables and the music is not so loud and people there just stand and chat with like no dancing. So we were there and when I looked around i could always catch an eye-contact with some girls, even a few times with some of them and there were also those three girls that were constantly looking at us for a few secs and then when we saw them they would turn away and giggle. Well the problem here is that when i notice these things i get a little nervous and it always pops into my head that it was just a coincidence they looked at us or they are smiling because we look funny etc. eventhough thats probably not true. So my question is, should I just forget about this thoughts and just assume I'm attracted to them and like just approach? And also has anyone had similar problems?
btw sorry for my bad english...

you should approach anyways. dont worry if girls are looking at you or now.

Lets assume they were NOT attracted - even if you walked up and introduced yourself - especially if you went direct...you could generate attraction. And thats assuming the eye-contact was a coincidence.

Obviously if its happened that many times its not, so definitely assume attraction, walk up there and drop a lil sumpthin sumpthin'

KINO the fuck out of 'em too especially if this is a club/lounge.



Good luck!!

Ok, then I guess I missed a lot of opportunities. I'll try to be more confident next time and just ignore those stupid thoughts...
Thanks for your answers you guys