Hey guys ,

can you give me some critque and tips on my appoach online?

ME:Hey,

Hows it going glasgow girl?

tell me what you do for fun!


HER:hayhay not too bad how bout u? n well i dont like drinkin haha so the
movies pix hangin out with mates the usual lol you? x


ME:Hey,

Not a drinker eh? thats a bad start....kiddding .

What do you study?

Loads of stuff, movies,cars,mma,surfing,travelling and exercising!

HER:hahaha i do drink when its needed but probs not a good start! haha i
do international product design lol where do u go surfing? lol x


ME:Thats ok then, I'll left you off this time. haha

International product design? You actually get a degree in that ?!


Surfing at **** beach ,only in summer but god it is cold!!

x


HER:lmfao shut up you! its a really hard course lol yeah i know its cold
was out shoppin in it today lol its **** u live aint it?

ME:Haha, im sure it is !

So sugashoes,is that your real name? Must have had some interesting parents.

Yeah aberdeen, thats where all the oil is! I sometimes come to ****for work.

7/10 - good gaming but pretty canned and generic
- No need for the kidding or the wink, you didn't overneg and now you are second guessing your own neg.

At least you didn't start LOL'ing at your own material, i see a lot of noobs do that in text game and I cringe.

Thanks for the feedback mate. I did think the smiley's were maybe a bit too much, I never lol.

How soon after should I ask for her number? I'm still talking to her, will post the rest of the updates.

I don't talk on the phone, so I only get numbers to text to arrange a meet up until I f-close, then I may call them if only rarely. I also never IM when I do internet gaming, so I'm not an expert on when it is appropriate but I think sooner then later.

I would arrange a meet up as soon as possible in this case. I strongly believe IM'ing and texting to raise attraction is overrated and a fail. Those are words on a screen and unlikely to facilitate moistening of the crotchal region in females.

Ah she has flaked/stop responding, here is the last messeges- Was I being a bit too neggy at the end?

Any input appreciated

ME:hahaha, suit yourself shortie !

We might actually get on, your a dog person which is cool, if you had a cat then we would have problems.

Same here, doing postgrad at uni-craz workload.Away to meet my mate soon.

hmmm you sound like trouble x

HER:i always do haha n i have 2 dogs n 3 cats lmaoooooooooo! what u doin at
uni? lol n nah not trouble at all lol u sound like it more like X


ME:3 cats and 2 dogs? Jesus ,must be a zoo at your place?!

What type of music do you listen to?

Doing a MSc in project management so I can work abroad in a few years.

Yeah I am a bit of an ***hole

x




Since then she hasn't responded and she has been online for a while, how long should I leave before I try and recontact her? Think I may have fucked up by telling her I am an asshole?lol

your text/IM game is pretty good, but I didn't like:
because its too close to rapport/comfort before you have established attraction and thus comes off as try hard.

But again I really dont think your problem is improving your text/IM game, your game in this area is good enough. You bigger issue, unless I am wrong and this shit gets you mad pussy, is not moving the interaction to a meet up as soon as possible. I sincerely don't believe, by my own faield experience, that prolonged texting or IM'ing brings you any closer to their vijayjay the longer you keep doing it, no matter how witty and cocky funny you are.

Since then she didn't reply so I tried an ego boost which did get a reply.Thing is she does stay like an hour away so I was trying to build some rapport with her.

What I should have done is perhaps ask for her mobile earlier when she was telling me to shut up I think, then let from there. Never mind-on to the next one.


Btw this is the first time i've actually ever used negs on a girl and I was pretty impressed with the feedback at first! I used to try the nice guy technique but I've learned so much on here.

Someone should make an app!