I’m a second year psychology uni/college student in the UK. Psychology has a 70/30 or even 80/20 female/male ratio. This is something I really have not taken advantage of. I had a girlfriend all last year so I didn’t try in my first year but we split up over a month ago. She goes to a different uni. However since then I’ve made out with 3 girls in clubs which hasn’t lead to anything more and I got the third base with one girl from Psychology. I didn’t fancy her that much and it has been a bit awkward since. I have spoken to a quite a few girls but this has been in clubs/parties/drinking environments. I know I rely on alcohol too much.


It’s hard to just talk to people in lectures. There’s often a lot of space so not sat directly next to someone and a lot of people stay in their small groups. There are a few girls I occasionally sit with (friends) but they don’t know many other people and I always sit with one guy friend. He is a nice guy but not much of a “wingman”. He looks like Hagrid from Harry Potter. Would this put off girls?


QUESTION – How should I meet these girls on my course, what should I talk about, what else should I do? How do I get talking to them? I’ve read lots of PUA stuff but a lot doesn’t apply to these sort of situations

thanks