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PostPosted: Mon Oct 17, 2011 12:01 pm 
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Today i sat in front of a really pretty girl. We were pretty much alone. I saw her looking to me sometimes. How should I open to a girl in the train? Should I use the three-second rule? In short: How do I get her to like me and how do I get her phone number.

Short note: I have a time span of 20 minutes in the train.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 17, 2011 9:23 pm 
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Think about it man. You're on a train. Just say hey I'm x where you heading? Girl: Oh I'm going to blah balh". You: Oh same here are you from there? ect...

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If she's reading a book or something ask her about the book. Lots of possibilities when traveling.


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 18, 2011 1:31 am 
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Your issue isnt the train, the bus, the mall, or the store . your issue is your not comfortable opening. You need to approach and open a lot to get comfortable opening wherever. Once you can open consistently then worry about gaining attraction.


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 18, 2011 11:50 am 
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Ok, opening isn't that much of a question then:
-Where are you heading?
-What are you reading?
-What are ypou listening?

How do I create attraction? I'm perfectly able to have a conversation. But how can I get her to actually like me?

I'm quite new to this and currently reading The Game. But my impression is that I shouldn't directly give her compliments. Can anyone suggest some sort of step-by-step pattern to follow? I don't need to know what to say. I need to know where to take the conversation. How can I use my 20 minute time span to achieve my goal of getting her phone number?


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I still think you need to work on approaching and opening to start or you wouldn't have posted that original question

The Game is a great starting point just to make you aware of whats possible. But your asking all the right questions to start your PUA journey. Ive read about 35 books on PUA and here's what I would read next if I were you. The following books are both comprehensive of the whole PUA process and effective.

1. Double your Dating and 77 laws - David DeAngelo
2. Gunwitch - Way of the Gun (Audio course)
3. Magic Bullets - Love systems
4. Badboy Lifestyle

I should note that this convers the three of the main areas of PUA and to some degree, one will fit your style better then another

DDA is the best for your inner game and foundation.
Gunwitch an Badboy is great for Sexual aggressive male.
Love Systems which evolved from the Mystery method is great if you are a push -pull teaser type ( this style is too much work for me to be honest)


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Subway & Train "Denial Opener"

- This works when the carriage is basically empty apart from her.
- You walk up and down the carriage as if you're thinking really hard about which seat to sit down in
- You then pick the one directly next to her

You: Hey, is this seat taken
Her: Uh...no
You: Ok thanks (sit down)
You: I know what you're thinking, but I didn't choose this seat to chat you up, it's just that I really like this particular seat - there's a good view and it's really comfortable, that's it
Her: Ok
You: Not I wouldn't chat you up normally. I mean, you're really nice and everything, but it was really just about this seat, that's all.
Her: Ok
You: You know, now I feel a bit awkward, I guess I probably should chat you up. Hi! I'm ____, what's your name?

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PostPosted: Wed Oct 19, 2011 3:59 pm 
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First off, thanks for the feedback. I really appreciate it.

About the books, I have most of them in my possesion now, but added the ones I didn't know about.

I love the opener. It's not that hard. I'm going to try and field test it soon.


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well you want to attract her correct?, think about it like this, how many guys do you think come up with the same boring things like what book are you reading ect.. idk maybe that works for some people but are you genuinly intrested in what book shes reading or where shes heading... probably not, id go for more of the lighthearted and humorus approach, for instance you said she looks at you you could go and sit next to her and say something like, "hey i saw you looking at me and i just had to say ... i totally caught you starring at my boobs" imagine how many guys go up and say something like that to her, i bet you none which combined with her laughter makes you stand out as that funny attractive guy of course body language and eye contact always play a role in that, but if you want to attract her go lighthearted at first, it really breaks the tension and akwardness of meeting someone for the first time, and you can play off that line by adding in funny remarks during your conversation like ..." hey my eyes are up here", but most importantly i cannot stress enough that you have to be smiling and have positive confident body language or youl just come across timid and kind of creepy, roleplay is great to start out with in a conversation beacuse you can play off of it the entire conversation, like you can make a remark to her about how one of the other people prefereably someone like an old lady or a kid on the train keeps giving you the death stare and that she needs to be your body guard, basic stuff like that will make her laugh and give a great start to attraction then near her stop you can say how you two should hang out sometime and that youd like to get to know her better, in specific id make it somewhere fun like celebration station or take her rock wall climbing ect... then if shes willing to go hang out with you shell give you her phone number before she gets off, if it seems as if shes not then hand her your phone with a smile and say here put your number in and il txt you and let you know where we can meet up.

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Subway & Train "Denial Opener"

- This works when the carriage is basically empty apart from her.
- You walk up and down the carriage as if you're thinking really hard about which seat to sit down in
- You then pick the one directly next to her

You: Hey, is this seat taken
Her: Uh...no
You: Ok thanks (sit down)
You: I know what you're thinking, but I didn't choose this seat to chat you up, it's just that I really like this particular seat - there's a good view and it's really comfortable, that's it
Her: Ok
You: Not I wouldn't chat you up normally. I mean, you're really nice and everything, but it was really just about this seat, that's all.
Her: Ok
You: You know, now I feel a bit awkward, I guess I probably should chat you up. Hi! I'm ____, what's your name?
GOLDEN!


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