im james a 19 year old uni student whos known about the game and the pick up technically since i was 17 but only recently ive started to take it more seriously. My track records moderate but could be better, ive noticed mostly when i improvise it never goes well but in the past when ive used hybrid versions of the mystery method with no game plan it seems to work a bit better. However i want the option to have more 9s and 10s in my life, so ive developed my own routines and material and changed my style all i need to do now is start practicing infield. My biggest problem at the moment is the approach, ill see a small group of hot girls and naturally my emotions will tell me not to go in GRRRR! For the last couple of weeks i keep passing off opportunities and being fussy. I'll be out with my mates, see a potential set and i back out. I end the night feeling frustrated because i STILL havnt tried it.

Im going out once again this wednesday in a small group to the student union, and im worried that it'll happen again. I basically need some advice that will help me finally make that first bloody step!!

thanks,

dam man...i was just about to post the same damn thing...LOL..
i get what you mean..
im out with my mates, a lil tipsy, feeling all awsome and shit...and i see a group of girls which really gets my taste buds going...i tell myself go for it..you can handle this..

then all of a sudden..something tells me..nahh just chill, theyl be more girls later on..
(in other words my mind rationalizes my fuking blue balls for not attempting)

so yea..i end up going home..with my friends..and having a quick pull in the bathroom...:/

hahaha..
some1 do answer this question..
(then again i think we both know the answer to this question, were just looking for more)

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"oh just fuck them already"

yup same shit here,,,

i think the best solution for real is:

stop, and i seriously mean STOP, jacking off. If u can't, then you have a even more serious problem.
now next time you go out, you will want to fuck a HB, and realize that you HAVE to do it, you HAVE to approach, your dick needs it.

and ofcourse, grow some balls.

ciao

hahahahahahahaha!!ahhh yes that made my day..LOLL..

clear blunt truth..haha

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"oh just fuck them already"

i get what ur saying man, my dick does need it lol

so the solution is to just fucking man up!!