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Thanks guys! I thought the opener should run fast to seem casual. The "pausing" is new, hmm i will fieldtest that.
FTC=False time constraint.
About the neg, yes i get blown out if i neg 7-8:s with "youve got something on you nose", or "your hands are sweaty, or even "hands of, costs you 50 bucks each time you touch." if i do them after A1. Because girls tend to touch right of the bat for some reason (maybe because im not leaning in, and the club is loud).
Im pretty new at doing MM wich is my choise of learning game, so ive removed some negs. I know they are for 9:s and 10:s, but i havent met 9:s and 10:s yet infield. Mostly 7-8,5. Ive only been practicing hardcore 4 nights over 2 weeks as of this weekend. I plan to do 3 nights a week now.
So i dont have to NEG in A2? Because ive noticed if i dont neg, they get bored, if i do neg, they blow me out. Its like WTF??
Is it better replacing negs with self-disqualifiers instead, like "im not BF material"?
no, stop with this voodoo wizard shit, go to the pua lounge, look up chiefs guide to outer game, what you are going to want to take note of is the compliance ladder, stop with this stupid neg dhv shit,
open, hook, break rapport, move on, open new sets, then after some time re-open friendly sets, and practise escalating until blow out, be friendly, don't say rude shit, be normal, talk about boring mundane shit, make assumptions about them, tell them cool stories, make them laugh, have fun, don't be a retard with scripted insults that are not useful until you understand when and how to use them, make sure you leave while the group is hooked, so they want more, don't leave after they ignore you/check their phones
open with
hey, your really cute, I had to come meet you, im (your name) whats yours?
if she doesn't give you her name, move on
if she does, you can transition with, having fun?, or so how do you all know each other?, if they hook to the transition, LEAVE THE SET, AND MOVE ON, pleasure meeting you girls, have a great night, see you later, continue doing this until the whole club is opened, then go re-open the friendliest sets and practise gaining compliance momentum (escalating, is just testing how much a girl is compliant to you, high compliance = sex)
leaving the set after hook right away, will demonstrate you are not a needy little stalker, girls like talking to guys that are not needy little stalkers, go field test it
also to answer your question about false dis-qualifiers, no it is better to start declaring interest, so girls that are not interested blow you out,
all indirect is game is, is showing interest after the girl shows it first,
it is not some magical voodoo power that makes all girls fall in love with you,
girls will judge your value in relation to theirs and know right away, if they would sleep with you or not, if they talk to you, you have enough passive value, if they don't you need more value, and at that point you need to demonstrate and offer more value to gain more compliance (investment), with enough compliance you can build sexual tension without resistance, sexual tension is the main goal to have sex, you want her to be doing the talking, and have all the pressure on her, make her horny,
if a girl is reciprocating touch, she is attracted to you, it is like a physical dialogue between the two of you, you touch her shoulder or are really attractive to her, she touches you (big ioi), so that is like your unspoken que to go ahead, and push the physical further, you put your arm around her, she leans into it, you push it further, she pulls away, you don't have a reaction you, just change the subject pretend it never happened, and go back to touching her shoulder, for a while until you think she is comfortable, then try again, just don't be needy, you are not trying to get anything from her, you are just testing the waters, and trying to make her feel good
now here is a breif overview of your value
passive value: Looks, Physical Fitness, Style(you will get AI if you are dressed as a girls sexual steriotype, just like we like nurses/school girls some girls like buisness suites, and rock stars), Monitary assumption(nice watches etc.), Body Language
all of these things are what the girl will see first and make a quick value calculation on you, and decide if you pass the fuckable line or not, if so she will either speak to you or not
social value not going to explain this, im sure you read the MM, and have somewhat of a concept (this is what the verbal aspect of game is all about, social dominance)
emotional value good emotions you can offer
now, lets go over this again, you PROVIDE the value, the girl gives COMPLIANCE for the value, compliance builds momentum and eventualy things escalate to sex,
if you have shitty passive value, might as well go direct, and weed out all the wastes of time, not all the dhv's in a the world will make SNL a girl who doesn't want to fuck you due to physical reasons / change her mind in a bar, maybe in a social circle she would want to date you, if you had some real value to offer, but a timid approach and a couple insults and stories about the time you looked out for your buddy, and then fucked 10 strippers, will get you no where, simply demonstrating social intelligence will get you much further,
CHAT