so my friend recently got me a hb9 date to this party were going to and i never met her before. i have never been in this type of situation before and do not know how to handle it at all. its going to be a date party at a bar and i am pretty nervous. when i first meet people i have trouble holding conversations and dont know what to say. i need some advice on how to work this one out guys. anything is appreciated, thanks

First thing you can do is Smile with a sincere smile it makes everyone comfortable. You want to be genuinely interested in the other person as well so ask a few questions, which will make you more comfortable and you can direct the whole conversation with how she responds. Build alot of value and find common relations that you both have.
use your surroundings to create a conversation, if you have to.

Do not let fear guide you in life, embrace the fear by overcoming it. It's easy for me to say, and actions speak louder then words. Remember this girl is probably going to be nervous to since you both don't know anything about each other.It's not what you say it's how you say it. If you like something about the girl don't be scared to say it, be firm and say it with confidence.

I've read the book called that Secret and it's explains about the Laws of attraction and it says believe what you speak. Be more assertive.

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Just Like Chess I know the Rules-- And I bet I Checkmate her in like 4 moves--Trey Songz
Not Every girl is going to be instantly attracted to you it is what you do that makes them attracted to you.

Make this date a NOT-DATE. If you treat this with fun, dominance, frame control, she will think you are different. Because guess what? She's probably expecting you to be all romantic or at least nice. Don't be a nice guy dude. Treat her like any other girl, cause for all that you know, she could be a bitch.
Again, do not treat this as a date.

Demonstrating High Value is the only way to get this chick interested in you. The idea here is to get her interested in talking! Conversations can go anywhere but typically, I do some research and read shit chicks are reading... you DON"T want to talk about the usual schoolwork, govt, where do u live, blah blah blah...she probably hears that shit all the time and before you know it, she will be nodded politely and looking around the room... you need to go for the topics she enjoys but the typical guy doesnt talk about...

a good place to start is:

www.cosmopolitan.com

there are SO many chick issues here it is impossible NOT to get her talking...it can be as innocent or as sexual as you want..depends on where the night is going.

people magazine
ANY mag you see at checkout...

if she is more cerebral....then you may wan to read CNN or MSN for the next several days to get a lock on current events that matter.

chicks love mind games too so you may want to tell her u are interested in becoming a psychotherapist and blah blah blah..and do the cube game on her - though this is later when/if u get her isolated...or....if u want to do it for a chick in a group setting.


I have a powerful magnet that is shaped like a ring..that is great for stopping almost any watch's sweep second hand....a nice mind over matter trick that freaks people out....most magic store carries them as well as some shit hot coin tricks

There is the 5 question game...it is playful and fun...and u can get her to bet something (which she will lose..so choose the terms wisely)

above all.....

BE FUN
BE FREE
BE ANIMATED
BE RELAXED
SMILE, SMILE, SMILE
ENGAGE EVERYONE

One last thing....
Most HB's 9's - 10's give out SHIT TESTS....do NOT..I repeat DO NOT fail the SHIT TEST...

Keep us posted....

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Atomicglow