ok guys as im sure alot of you are aware, opening can be fairly terrifying for those without experience. i learnt the secret of opening long ago when i was on holidays back in myAFC days
the story goes i was hanging with some people that id met. the only guy of the group was gay and we got talking because he opened me (but thats a different story)
anyway one night we were all hanging out and a HB 9 walked past. my mate decided to make the group bigger so he did what i considered brave back in the day. long story short she ended up joining the group

so whats the secret?

quite simply its confidence. he opened her with "hi how are you" with a brilliant smile on his face

im sure ur sick of hearing that, and that its a cliche. things like this become cliches because they work! and hey if u need a confidence boost, just monitor your body language until it shows confidence and your mind will follow

nikki valentine