I have just got a match with a girl that I met at a speed dating event.

At the speed dating event, it transpired that we both attend the same salsa night club. Although I have never danced with her, we both felt that our paths may have crossed before from outside the salsa domain. We spent some time finding out how our paths may have crossed and could not up with a common ground during our short meeting. This was an interesting learning experience as we graduated from different universities and used to practised martial arts. She did Karate, whereas I did Jitsu.

I am looking for a good push-pull text message opener to build up the attraction/relationship and more importantly secure a follow up date.

Does anyone have any opening ideas and the conversation path to take?

Thank you in advance for the forthcoming response.

why would you not just text her about a meetup/instadate at the salsa night club you both go to? She was somewhat keen right and shes going there anyway?

I find trying to build attraction via text is much harder then doing it in person so I now use it as a last resort.