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So I went to the library to pick up a book and I saw a cute Asian girl. Maybe 7 or 8. She was sitting alone on her laptop. I had my book and went over to her table and asked if the seat in front of her was taken. She said no. So I sat down and brought out my stuff and opening my book and everything trying to think of what to say. I brought out my laptop and was plugging in power. I noticed she had her's on the table and I asked if she wanted me to plug her's in for her. She said sure and tossed it under the table to me. Then a guy walks up to her and sits down next to her. Just so happens it was her boyfriend as he had his arm around her and was holding her hand and etc. etc.
About 5 minutes later, I packed up and left. My question is if the boyfriend hadn't shown up. What would have been good openers and things to say that would lead to a number close or even a fuck close? I haven't really figured out this stuff yet. Can anyone help me with specifics?
Thanks,
JC
I reckon in that case, so you pretty much open up. What I say is either
1. Try to compliment her on something she has like a piece of clothing (thats if shes not really doing anything) and say "I bet your BF likes it as well" or "Did your BF get that for you" -> if she says yes "O are you guys studying together SPAM or something"
-> if no, BF DESTROYER ACTIVATED
2. Or just say what are you studying for -> what degree etc. -> ask if she met anyone she liked there etc. and you should also find an answer as well
So you would try to find out how the relationship is going between them, usually if a girl is really into her BF, theres NOTHING you can do NOTHING NOTHING , even the most godly PUA would have no chance tbh because that girl believes that guy is her everything but if she doesnt seem to even like her bf, then thats when you can push it, you can test it by hmm "what do you feel about your bf" (after finding out she has one), im pretty sure you can read their strength of their relationship from her reaction but beware, its still more difficult (even if the bf is a fucktard) versus a chick whos single and ready to mingle
even if she says "i have a bf" when you ask her out or get her number just say "i'm not asking for your bfs number asking for yours" or something like that..
this is theoretical though, i havent really ACTUALLY experienced but thats how id deal with it... maybe someone else should give you advice