Dos vs. Do Nots.
Advice for not coming across as the lonely creeper who stares at everybody
Things to say or do


Any advice is greatly appreciated.

Thanks!!

If talking about night game..
It's good to get yourself known by groups, especially if it is somewhere that you know nobody, open up some groups of guys and stuff like that and get yourself into some social circles for the night. If do enough street opens on groups like that, any place you walk into there is a chance you'll run into people already spoken too.

I did a night out alone a few months ago to a city I had never been to before, barely bought myself a drink, kept getting introduced to more people including girls, was a great night just for the people as much as the girls.

you project how you feel, if you think it is weird to be by yourself, it is weird to be by yourself, if you think it is normal, it is normal,

get to the point where it feels normal, as for advice,

have fun, make girls feel good/horny
get lots of numbers/kisses
and follow up

Just because you are alone, does not necessarily mean you must let others be aware of it.
The difference between a loner and someone in a group, is effort.
You cannot sit and wait for the party to approach you. You have to locate where the 'hot spots' of the place (club, park etc..) are, and zone in.

That being said, never seem uninterested. Some assume that the "Meh, i'm just here chilling. Not really bothered. Whatever.." attitude; women will find it somewhat of a 'bad boy' attribute and therefore, attractive. Wrong. It will do you much more harm than good, that's for sure. If you are not bothered, why should they be? Engage others, and be willing to be engaged by them.

If you are unfamiliar with anyone, your best option is to make acquaintances with the males first. Why? For the simple reason that if you dive in, with the key obligation of making female friends and chatting them up; the guys will see you as a threat, and will then, block you out completely as a group. Therefore, rendering you even more lonely than you were to begin with! And who knows, you might even manage to find yourself a new wingman, and make it a bit easier on yourself.

Never stay stationary. Make sure you are moving around frequently. This suggests to others that you are putting in the effort, and they will meet you half way. As opposed to the couch loner, who would much rather let others do all the work.

Smile, and let others know that although you are alone, it is not putting you down and you are eager to make friends.
When you are in a bored and depressed state of mind, they will sense that, and will assume that once they begin to converse with you, you will cause a chain reaction and bring them down as well, ruining their night. Be positive!

Good Luck!

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Hey all! A small update from last night. I went out to this bar where I had been on a date last weekend. I happened to meet one of her friends there, another really nice guy, so I hung with him for a while, then he introduced me some friends, who introduced me to some other friends.

It ended up being a super cool night, and I got two numbers out of it, one whom was married (she actually was the one who wanted to switch contact info, I suppose to network). Although she's married, but hey, she may have a cute friend, right? Another girl at the end of the evening said "call me." She wasn't more than an HB5.

I don't think I need a wingman guys

alone is less intimidating to women i strongly believe is a plus being alone

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