Hey guys!! Hope you doin' well.

I need your help with something quick.
See, there's this girl who was in college with me, she is really cute and I think she is just my type so I'd like to take her out, but I need a creative approach.

We are kind of friends for several years (I've been to her parties, she's been to mine) and I actually flirted with her in college once before I knew she had a boyfriend, so after that I never hit on her.

Last month I came back to my city because I quit work (she works in the same company, and I was working aboard) so I took some time to say hi. It went really well, we were having good time and it was flowing but she is kind of a workaholic and after 5 minutes or so she had to leave... I couldn't invite her.

After that, I came up with the idea of going to her house to say happy birthday. So I went one day before her birthday, a Sunday at 8 pm. But it went wrong, she was just arriving and for some reason she was in a hurry, so it actually felt a little uncomfortable and I decided not to invite her that day.

Three weeks have passed and I still want to take her out, but I ran out of ideas.
I'm concerned calling her mayy come as too hard so I was thinking on just wait to catch her in IM but I would not like to wait, that could take weeks.

Any good ideas?
I beliee something creative and original could be the answer.


Thanks!!

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Call and invite her to something simple, a cup of coffee or lunch to catch up on old times. Then you can game from there. I know you want to do something extravegent to catch her attention, but it isn't necessary. In fact the more complex you make it the more that could go wrong, possibly leaving you in a very awkward position. Follow the KISS rule, Keep It Simple Stupid. It sounds to me like you are over thinking this just a little, screwing yourself up since you want to have everything to go perfectly. I know this isn't what you wanted to hear but I think you have a much better chance with this.

Indeed, totally agree with post above.
It should be smth very easy, just friend cup of tea/coffe or lunch. I wouldn't game that much coz ur guys working in same company and her mind would be a bit messed with all this things she has to do with her job. Objective should be to invite her for party or evening meeting depends what u like. The reason why not to use any special effectiveness stuffs is ur already in friend zone. When ur gonna make things to impress her in work or so, u can be get as trying too hard.

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Thanks guys, I see what you mean.
I was concerned that a phone call may come as too hard but I'll just keep it simple and it should avoid awkwardness.

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