For those of you who read my last post "fishing for compliments and pushing a neg," I wanted to elaborate that pushing a neg can be expanded to props as well. The idea here is to provide a prop which will either indirectly bring out a negative trait in her which you can tease her about, and ideally, which will subsequently allow you to qualify yourself.

For instance, I've worn a pendant with a big mirror on it to a club. Women by their very nature are vain, or alternatively will jokingly check themselves out in front of you. A sample incident took place as follows:

Girl>>* checks herself out in mirror on my chest
Pembi>> Easy there. Are you checking my chest out or are you just vain?
(she has no alley but to flirt - again, PUSHING)
Girl>> I guess I was just checking myself out.
Pembi>>So you're vain. ( she was with friends, so I invited the friends to
see themselves - even the guys)
Pembi>>Alright - well I'd love to let you scope me all night - but I need
to socialize. Pleasure meeting you guys - except her *wink

Later on in the night I saw her walking by alone, and opened:

Pembi>>Want to take another look?
Girl>>Smiles and looks at the mirror
Pembi>>As vain as ever. You didn't catch the eye-crusties last time...
Girl>>Shut-up. You're mean.

And from here I proceeded into teasing and qualifying myself (I'm a mystery method fan).

It also works with negative attention grabbers like a REALLY ugly bracelet.
For instance, at the bar orderring a drink, girls will always stare at it. The situation will work as follows:

Girl>>*starting at ugly bracelet
Pembi>>You're starting at my ugly bracelet aren't you?
Girl>>(sheepish) No....yes. (you've PUSHED her into her neg)
Pembi>>It's rude to stare.
Girl>>sorry.
Pembi>>It's okay - if you must know it's a gift and I'm wearing it so as
not to hurt feelings. SOME of us are considerate about that (in
teasing voice)

And then you proceed as you so choose.


Have fun and play safe!