So I've been following this site since college, and it has greatly helped me out. Went from being an afc nice guy who always ended up in the friend zone to actually being able to get a decent amount of action. The problem I'm facing now is that I find myself having few opportunities to actually meet girls.

A little about me and my situation: I'm 28 and live in an apartment in a relatively small town a little south of San Francisco that I moved to about 5 months ago. I enjoy drinking but don't want a dui so I frequently go to bars within walking distance of my house. Unfortunately, all the bars in my area are mostly sausage fests, and most of the time if a girl in one of these bars is decent looking, she will have a boyfriend.

Furthermore, I've been having trouble finding activities to stay active and meet people. I finally got onto a softball team, but it's all guys so it probably won't be a goldmine for meeting single chicks. I'm thinking about joining a bowling league, but again, I'm doubtful I'll meet a lot of women this way.

My question is this: several guys on this site talk about meeting women constantly and I'm wondering where they do this. I have a small group of friends here now (mostly guys, some girls) but I hardly meet any single girls through them. I am frustrated because when I do meet single attractive girls, I can usually do ok, but it seems like I hardly ever even get any opportunities to work my game.

Please advise, especially bay area people.

Hey mate!

Never went to this place (ain't it gay town btw?), but my advice to you would be to hang around student places. Of course it's easy to say for me, since I'm still a young ass college dude, but in my opinion the hottest chicks usually hang around there! Still, my reality might not be the same as yours, since I live and sarge in Quebec City, Canada

Hope you enjoyed my words!

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Driving to the big city and staying sober is a possibility. Sure, you won't be able to drink (or not much at least, depending on the laws there) but you'll notice significant improvements of your game.

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Go.

Public comunication train, bus, metro, streets even shops or city center. Look around!

I agree with ASX, you're better off going to the nicer bars in the city and just not drinking. Alcohol will only make sarging more difficult so just going to a bar and drinking a club soda should put you in the right environment for good gaming.

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Do not get trashed at the bar if you want to put your game on. You don't to look sloppy. On the other hand you can order drinks that look like alcohol but ask the bartender to put only soda in there. Talk to the bartender and tell him whenever I say i want a rum and coke just give me coke. At least this way you don't feel left out lol.