I was in the gym today and as I get very relaxed from the workout itself I also get very creative so i thought up a new opener. I will try it next time i go out but i wanted to post it here first so you guys maybe could help me polish it up. Here it goes:

You go to the bar and buy yourself a drink. Go up to your target and say:

Pua - You're very cute and all but I'm really not looking for anything tonight.
Hb - What are you talking about?
Pua - The bartender told me you bought me this? (point at your drink and look confused)
Hb - Hahaha I didn't
Pua - Haha must have been some other girl. I'll go find out (here you go back to the bartender and shmuz a little bit then go back to the girl).
Pua - Haha he was just playing matchmaker. He thought we would make a cute couple.
Hb - Hahaha

Here you can keep on gameing or you can accidentally bump into her later.

What do you guys think? I'm very new to this whole pickup thing so be gentle. I thought the disqualifier is good and then the dhv that your used to girls buying you drinks should also get you some points with her.

How big of a risk is it that she herself goes to the bartender and ask what's up?
Should I maybe forewarn the bartender about it and ask if he/she can play along?

I like this a lot. As for should you warn the bartender, I personally wouldnt... he'll probs just think your a loser. Once youve got convo flowing with the girl (which is the aim) you can move her away from the bar, and she's less likely to say anything, and even if she did, and the bartender told her, you could probs cover yourself... by saying something like 'he was probably trying to keep it a secret from you'.... but I dont think it would matter to much if she realised it was a trick. Just make a joke of it, hopefully by this point she wont care. She probably knows your trying to pull her all along, girls are used to it, she'll appreciate its something different to the usual 'so...err whats that your drinking?'. Make a joke of the situation and it wont matter.

i have a weird feeling that this has a small risk having the girl become attracted to the bartender.

and it looks weird to be going up to your target after going to the bar


the way this would work...have an open tab going. let's say you just finished your beer. walk up to the bar right next to the girl and kind of signal to the bartender that you need another beer. he'll get onee for you..then just lean towards him and say thanks...again make sure the girl is still right next to you. then you can probably pull off this opener..again the girl should be at the bar looking to buy a drink as well. then it could be pretty cool.

then you give her a hug or something and say 'thanks for the drink' and she'll be like 'what'? the bartender just told me you go this for me...actually it seems too much talking


i would look at her all happy and be like 'holy shit a free drink...this is awesome..i didn't order this' and start ranting to the girl...when the bartender comes by kind of lean in towards him and ask for another beer. and say thanks out loud..lean in to have him talk into your ear...then you can pull off the "haha he wanted me to give this drink to you..he think's we look cute together"...then side hug her and give her the beer and pull her closer

then start joking with her onthe whole thing

then keep building attraction....

well at least that's how i would go about doing stuff

but it depends on your personality. i would find if i did this whole thing pretty hilarious..obviously at some point i'll tell her i was messing with her.