Hey all,
Okay so i met this girl on an online dating site and we've agreed to meet for drinks. Could really do with some tips! For example should i kiss her on the cheek when i first meet her?

Much appreciated!

Answers will come when you add detail. How long have you talked? Have you spoken over phone? Do you have game? Details people!! Kiss on the cheek is harmless unless done in a creepy ackward way. But all our answers depend on your brief history and interaction with the women. Get alot of photos btw!! I cant stress this more. I did online for couple months and met some straight up goblins that looked great in pictures. Kinda dissapointing seeing how much work you put into these girls and end up not being attracted to them physically.

Hi enigma_7, now I don't know your age or your type but here is what I have had great luck with when dating girls that I've only had contact with through dating sites, facebook or such:

1. Find out what she likes or what kind of hobbies she has and BRUSH UP on the subject if you find it interesting (this is the best thing about dating women you meet on the internet - you have all the time you need to do good homework ).
This way you come off smarter and you have a back-up if you run out of things to talk about.

Do you know about her interests? Are they interesting to you?

2. Get her to expect the least of the situation! Remember that it can be risky to build up her expectations if you can't back it up.. And this way she can ONLY be positively surprised.

I always go like: "Nah, I don't usually meet people I've only been writing with" or "I'm not sure if I have the time honey" (to make the impression that you have alot to choose between) or "Nah, I think it's awkward meeting people that I don't know" - ANY CRAP as long as you are resisting a bit, it almost always get her to 'beg' for the date in the end. - you see what I am doing here(?), now the pressure is on HER to impress YOU!

3. In the end of the night I've always sent her a couple of IOI's but never made any direct moves and I've goten f-close almost every time.


I know I got a bit general, but I hope you can use something in your exact situation .