Well, I tried making a post earlier but I think I wrote too much without thinking people might be bored reading it, so I'll write the cliff notes version.

Basically there is this girl at work, probably an HB 8 or 9 or so. I asked her out on a date. She asked me if she thought it would be unprofessional, and I said, probably not, but the decision is up to her. But she told me she wanted to keep it professional, and I said fine.

So I pretty much went on my merry way telling myself, I wasn't going to let this rejection get to me, and I didn't. I was still a happy camper and focused on the work I needed to do. As a result of this, she began acting very pouty, irritable and angry in front of me -- and I could not really understand why. But later it dawned on me that she was upset I was not giving her the attention she thought she deserved.

So I went up to her, asked her about why she was so upset. Of course, she denied that she was upset, and still said she wanted to keep the relationship at a professional level. I'm like, well, okay.

So I have kind of alternated between ignoring her and acting like I am her friend, and every now and then she has given me a couple of looks that appear to say something along the lines of, "I want to rip your clothes off." But right now, its gotten to the point where, she is super neurotic and acting really, really strange. I am not really sure what to make of this -- practically trying to throw things at me to get my attention. If I want to get this girl on a date, what exactly do I need to do? I'm not looking for anything huge right now, or a quick lay. Just a little fun.

Thanks for your help guys.

What you're saying about that SHE thinks it's unprofessional, could be a 'shit'-test.

She's just testing you and doesn't want it to go that easily, women love the game. And quite frankly, I myself don't even like it when a girl just gives it all right away. There has to be an secret element...

If you think she's into you and acting strange around you to get your attention, just let her behave how she wants and be sure to be busy during work with a happy attitude. That way when she tries to get your attention, you can ACT like you didn't hear her or didn't see her (doing something to get your attention). Act is in capitals because it's important to ACT good. Don't make it seem like you totally ignored her. BUT overall, when she tries to get your attention, you should have fun WITH her! You also have to tease her.

Secret element... Maybe tell her that people/co-workers can't know about your relationship and she has to act like you're not fucking each other. That way when you're alone for 5 minutes she'll wanna do crazy shit and then you both have to act like nothing happened, etc... Ofcourse I don't know what kind of girl it is, but from what I'm hearing the girl secretly wants you. And that should be your mindstate from now on.

I think that's the situation you kind of want... No relationship yet not only sex.

And I wanna know what happens , so keep this thing posted!
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Definitely will keep you updated. We'll see where this goes.

dude you weirded her out. Sounds like she feels uncomfortable around you now. Find another girl in the office and give her the attention maybe you can draw her back to you.

Didn't she make it obvious. She asked you if you thought it was unprofessional. And she told you she wanted to keep it professional

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Just an update. I've tried to "normalize" the situation by talking to her just like any of my other co-workers. She approached me and one of my colleagues while we were having a conversation. It seemed normal. I have caught her looking at me a few times through the corner of my eye. I did a presentation in front of the class and she cheered me on quite distinctly.

She sits in front of me, though there is a big computer monitor in-between us. She seems anxious, or nervous, somehow.

I don't really plan on asking her out on a date again, and am not expecting much here and am ready to move to the next girl, but I see this as a challenge and want to see just how far it will go.

I know how you feel man, this shit will blind you. Just move on sooner than later man. there are a billion other girls in the world that are better looking and better to game than her.

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I will take it under good advisement -- there are others on my hit list. You're right -- I can't stay focused on this one. Need to keep my mind centered.