Ok check it out I recently was watching one of Ross's videos and he had an opener that went something like this, " Hi, I just told myself if I don't talk to this woman, I'm going to kick myself for the rest of the week, so I just wanted to say hello".

I thought this sounded pretty smooth. There was an HB 8.5 at a small bar I go to, and I walked in and waited to long, and then I thought she was with her boyfriend, any way I noticed she left by herself! I was pissed that I didn't approach her all though I did open some sets through the night, but wasn't what I was looking for.

I'll see her out again and she seems kinda of shy and sits by herself or with one other person. Any suggestions for the approach?

walk up to her and say: i realize ur probably shy because u get no attention from men whatsoever, so i decided to come here and pay attentino to u.
or u can start a covo by negin' her something like: nice hair is it real?
or look in our opening section of the forum and u'll get some ideas on how to open

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hey girls let me get your opinion on something...... can't go wrong haha, i wouldn't open a solo with a neg, maybe open a set with a neg, if one was 8.5 and one was 8-9. i blew a set up the other day by opening with a neg, so basically, be careful with it

i was pissed at myself for not opening this 11 tonight, god damn she was beautiful, skinny tall, model looking, dark hair college girl, her Halloween costume was a straight jacket, by the time i thought of a good neg opener she was no where to be found, i would have opened with.

PUA- so does the costume convey anything about your personality? because i can't be getting involved with crazy girls.

then i would wait for something in the dialog to sound negative, like something shes dealing with or something she disliked, then id say, "i knew you had that costume for a reason, its only been 5 minutes and were talking about your problems"

just need to be quicker, i suggest, and this is what i do, before i go out, i read recite and think about alot of openers. you can always just stack them, so when conversation dies down, you can keep it up

i can't wait for the perfect opportunity to use a 3 second rule story opener, on a girl who i make good eye contact with.