im 18 years old and great looking, im a pro surfer , and great with people, so naturally girls tend to fall for me. i've noticed i over think approaching a girl now. so im going to present my situation that's been in my head, maybe you can help me figure it out.

so im walking in the mall with a buddy, also a good p.u.a. , and two fine ass girls are walking toward us in the mall walking area or whatever, two blondes lets say.
now im going to tell you what i would do, tell me what i should do, what i did wrong, what i did right!

i would stop them and ask where a shop is, or something common. but there is already a variable, what if they tell me where it is and try to keep walking, which usually doesnt happen( im good looking, so is my buddy) but say it does, wtf do i do then. i tend to get stuck thinking about these situations. it quite frankly frustrates me when i do because then i look at my history and i've already slept with close to 20 girls, i honestly dont know the number. but i want to be fucking a new girl atleast every couple days again.

also, i just moved to a new town in georgia, one of the smallest towns i've ever been to. im used to the city.

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- KallyKid

if you use an opener like that don't even let her finish talking, just start a new thread, don't worry about interrupting her. this should help keep things alive.



You: Hey can you tell me where GNC is?

Her: yeah, it's...

You: Damn, you have beautiful eye's!, I'm sorry, I'm sure that sounds like a cheesy pickup line.




Break the convo a few times and start new topics in the up most ADHD fashion and you can keep a convo going and no worries if one of your threads gets knocked out eearly.


Good luck!

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-DJ_Z

alright man, that sounds legittt. ill work on that! thanks!

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- KallyKid

This is a 95% follow-up to the scenario you set up...

"Hey, I didn't just stop you at random. Pretend you are my girl friend and come into xxy (the place you named, make it a good cothing store) and tell me what you think of (some article of clothing). I want a girl's opinion."

You can skip the thing about "pretend you are my gf"--but using it is an escalation. Also make sure to touch her on the shoulder as you transition from stopping her to telling her (not asking her) to come with you. You are now moving her/them through space. Act as if you have no doubt she'll do it--as if it would be incredibly rude for her not to, just like if she had refused to tell you the time or something. As in, it's no big deal, of course she will.

Note--you don't have to buy anything. You don't want to get caught in spending to impress. Show, instead, that you are discriminating--that nothing is QUITE right. If she clearly likes something and gives tons of IOIs on it, reward her for that with a simple nod and smile.

From there, number close, and wait for her to contact you. You're golden.

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thanks man! that sounds good, ill give that a shot!

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- KallyKid