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I approached about 20-25 sets mostly HB 7 and above. But to my shock. These HBs act like they didn't even hear it. I mean isn't that the polite thing to do.when someone says hi to you. you say hi to them. i mean these HBs didn't even turn their heads. i mean if you hear a voice coming from less than 5 feets aren't you auto programmed to turn your head in that direction. The only people that would repond is guys and older women.
Are you sure they heard you? Were they engaged in a conversation already?
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So after analysing the situation i think the only mistake that i would have made while approaching is.
1) Maybe my energy level was too high.
2) since i kept on walking it didn't give them time to respond.
3) i should only say hi. when i get eye contact( how often does that happen??)
I don't think your energy level was the problem. If you're just saying "hi" to people this won't be an issue. Be sure you project, smile and attempt to make eye contact.
Also - remember that others have approach anxiety as well. Not everyone is in a social headspace during the day, so don't get discouraged if somebody completely ignores you.
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May be i should stand on their way and then say hi. or what should i do???. In order for them to respond. i am not trying to close or anything( i have a long way to do in order to acheive that.) But a simple hi.
This is too confrontational. I'd be willing to bet you'll get quite a few negative responses from this.
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And also how do you expect to run an opinion opener on these HBs?? Why would they give you their opinion. When they think they're too good to simply say hi to a friendly person who just greeted them.
You're making this too big of a deal and making unfair generalizations based on this one experience. If you approach and open with confidence, more often than not you'll get a conversation going.