Yeah, I'm looking forward to your e-book Skills, you know your business and I'm excited to check this out. I'm sure after I read it I will tweak my style a bit. I have an always evolving style so I love learning more and adding more tools to the cabinet.

Thank you for all the respect.

The game is different based on whether or not you plan to visit this club again. I usually always assume i will be back ( unless it is far out of town or I am on vacation)

I do not have any outlines or model of what I do, but I do have some rituals that I tend to follow.

If you arrive at the club early, it is a good idea to spend some time with the staff. Being very polite and friendly can help you later on in the night.

Even before entering, talk to the door man establish a good rapport with him, get his name. Be extremely friendly. Try to be memorable. ( this can help you in the future if you frequent the club again)

I usually always look for an attractive bartender, ( male or female) I will order a drink and then offer a very big tip 5-10$ I will then say to them, I am giving you this tip now to ensure great service from you, there will be another big tip at the end of the night. This usually gets you served first approaching the bar when crowded. The reason I look for the most attractive is because they usually have the most eyes on them when it becomes packed.( while customers are waiting for drinks) So when you come to the bar to order another drink and they serve you first, it usually makes others wonder, what is so special about you.

Talk to the bouncers, establish a friendly rapport, get their names and remember them. You never know when you may need their help. ( being seen with bouncers can often help you establish a sort of don't mess with this guy attitude from other alpha males in the club)

After I have successfully worked the staff, I will then seek out a spot in the bar where I can see the most. I spend the next 30-60 minutes observing ( I will rarely work game right away unless it presents itself to me)

I will also do many laps of the club getting myself seen and trying to establish eye contact with as many beautiful woman as possible. When eye contact is established as I walk by, I will usually smile or make some sort of positive gesture then keep walking. ( I am not approaching anyone at this time)

What I am looking for is simple tells, wedding bands/engagement rings, boyfriends, signs of interest- extended looks, smiles, smirks, attention, positive energy, dancing style, drunkiness ( too drunk is no good for my game) cock blockers...etc etc. All of these things are observed when trying to find a mark.

I will only pick one mark at a time, sure there may be 10 girls i want to work on, but i will only focus on one at a time.

A very important element in a club setting is your comfort around other alpha males. It is wise to always find friendly ones, based on over heard conversation etc. A very easy way to establish a friendship with them is to show your interest in the women in the club. ( As a hot woman walks by, observe her then look at the other guys observing her, then as she is gone, comment on how hot she was to the other men and what you would like to do to her) It's a form of mutual bonding, as all of you have the same intentions.

Never address a group of men, usually one or two men at once. Groups tend to have a group mentality and you can often be seen unconsciously as an intruder but by talking to one or two members of the group can easily bring you into general acceptance.

Easiest way to get respect from guys in a club, is to be good at dancing. Dancing is the best possible tool to have in a club setting, the better you are, the more respect you will garner. ( If you are not in anyway an alpha male, i suggest you learn to dance well) It also sets you apart from the rest. Almost any dance floor in any club anywhere in the world is usually 80-90% women. Then out of the 10-20% of men on the dance floor, how many are dancing well or even dancing period. If you are on the dance floor dancing well, you become a very small percentile, thus making you unique.


Becoming comfortable in your present setting is essential to starting your game in the right mind set. The better your mindset, the better your game.
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Here is some examples:

a) Listen, I really enjoy talking with you, I can get a really good sense of your personality. and it's great. I don't want this evening to end. Let's go to my place and have another drink and just relax.

b)Who are you? " target" I am completely intrigued by you. I never thought you'd have such a fascinating personality. I feel completely comfortable with you. Do you feel the same? ( if she reply's yes) Awesome, lets get out of here. Grab her hand and guide her away, if she starts to ask questions or show's a bit of defense, simply re-assure her she is safe. Then keep going.

c) I have an overwhelming desire to kiss and cuddle you.( gauge her reaction, if its positive) say: I am not big on pubic displays of affection, lets go to my place and watch a movie.

d) I've never met a woman like you, you seem to have a very good soul, you are actually becoming more attractive the more I talk to you. That's amazing. I feel completely comfortable with you. ( if she reply's the same) you say: Let's get out of here.

e) Wow! when i first met you, i just saw a pretty face, now I can see you are truly a beautiful person. I am so glad I took the chance to come talk to you. I hear stories from friend about women that are hot on the outside but have no substance. It's refreshing to meet a woman like you. Let's blow this pop stand. We can go somewhere else fun ( as you are taking her out of the current venue, then you could use, the gotta stop at home comment, or just flat out invite her home)

One of the best advices I've ever seen on club game!

SilverBack

Screening and Being Efficient

The biggest way to make your job simple and easy is to screen for receptive women. Sure, its possible to approach a women without first screening for receptiveness and get her aroused and wanting to have sex with you but in a nightgame type venue there will be many women who are receptive towards you so why waste more energy than you have too?

Screening for these women is super easy and once you get good at it you will find yourself doing it naturally, without thinking about it. So, what do you look for when you want an easy lay?

Eye contact. Eye contact is so majorly important that it cant possibly be overstated. Eye contact is the biggest indicator of women who are interested in you. If you meet eyes with a chick, hold it longer than most people would have and look at her in a sexual way. If she holds longer than most women normally would, its extremely safe to assume that she is interested and wants you to go meet her.

Another form of eye contact is when she keeps glancing over at you. Women are submissive by nature and are naturally shy because of it. This makes it likely that she wont hold direct eye contact for very long and sometimes not at all. However, if a woman has noticed you and you spark her interest she will throw glances at you every so often. The tricky part to catching them doing this. Women are sly and are very good at checking us out when we arn't paying attention. Most women are so good at this that most men get a lot more signs of interest from women on a daily basis then they ever realize.

If you believe a women is throwing glances towards you there are a few great ways to catch her.

- Look at her from the corner of your eyes. She will think your looking some place else and will safe to check you out.

- Reflections in a window or other reflective surfaces. A great way to catch a woman checking you out is to pretend to be looking through a window or in a mirror. You can then look at the reflection of her and catch her checking you out.

- Above all else, if you think a chick is cute, approach her. Maybe she was checking you out, maybe she wasn't. Who cares? If you find her attractive, go meet her.

Seducing women who either gave you solid eye contact or women who you have caught glancing towards you will be some of the easiest lays you will ever get.

Another highly important part of screening is to screen for Down To Fuck (DTF) women. DTF women are women who go out to get laid. These women make for very simple seductions and easy lays because they make it easy for you. They are after the same thing you are!

DTF women usually fall into a few basic categories

- Lone Wolfs. If you find a desirable women who is out alone, its extremly safe to assume she is wanting some quick dick.

- Women that show more skin than most of the other women around.

- Women who don't look like they club a lot.

- The older women in the room. This is highly subjective and depends greatly on the venue. In a room full of 21 year olds, a 28+ woman would be considered the older woman.

- Women who's eyes keep wondering around.

- Women who are still in the club at closing time.

- Dancing very sexy like on her own or with a female friend.

- Being loud, taking up space, or anything else that she does that draws attention to herself. A woman who's wanting dick wants men to notice her.

In addition to being on the lookout for women in the above categories its also important to be aware when a woman is giving you an approach invitation. An approach invitation (AI) is when a woman sends of subitle hints that she wants you to approach her.

These hints include

- Women who give you prolonged eye contact.

- Women who keeps glancing at you.

- Women are are giving you proximity. Women who want to meet you will often times come and stand in your general area hoping to catch your attention.

- Open body language. Women who are interested in you will often times display open body language such as her body facing towards you.

- Displaying overexertion's. This is anything a woman does to get you to notice her. Often this means coming into your line of sight multiple times. Fixing her hair and clothing when your looking at her, being loud, ect...

Usually any women who wants to meet you will display a combination of the above hints.

Notice: Don't use this as an excuse to not approach. If you don't find any cute woman giving you any AI's then simply pick a woman who you find desirable and go approach her. Just because a woman hasn't giving you any AI's doesn't mean she wont like you it just means she didn't happen to yet notice you in the sea of men.

Another extremely effective but often sneaky way of spotting woman who are easy lays is to look for a woman who has a high buying temperature (BT). BT is simply a fancy term for hornyness. The higher the BT, the more horny the woman is. Usually when you see a woman whos BT is high she is talking to a guy. She may be surrounded by a group but if you pay close enough attention you will notice she is mostly fixated on one particular guy.

Most newbies just assume that when a woman in a nightime venue is talking with a guy, she must know him. It comes as a shock to them when they learn that usually she doesn't really know him at all. He isn't usually her friend, certainly not her boy friend, but most of the time he is just a random guy she met in the club.

When you spot a woman who has a high BT it can be pretty effective to approach her and blow out the guy. The random guy will loose all hope and walk away leaving you with a horny girl. Whether she was horny before she got to the club or the guy did all the work and turned her on doesn't matter, all that matters is that you now have a horny chick in front of you.

There are a ton of ways to blow a guy out but the simplest and easiest way is as follows:

1) Approach her
2) Ignore the guy
3) Lead the conversation. Whenever the guy starts to talk just redirect the conversation back to where you want it to go
4) Escalate with the girl

Eventually the guy will get bored or loose all hope of getting anywhere with her and he will leave you both alone.

4.- Grabbing or touching when opening: When you INITIALLY approach the girl do not grab her hand or touch her, the only exception to this rule is when they play Latin music, or Latin beats for example Shakira, Ricky Martin, Pit Bull, or Reggaeton. After you are in the set and pass the social hook point, you should escalate incrementally a little at a time.

I agree with the vast majority of what you say, but what makes you say this?

This post is absolutely ON POINT....these general rules work in Dance Clubs and Hip Hop Clubs...

Well got my answer answered via pm so am gonna state it here for the sake for everyone to learn here.

What do you do when the club really gets packed? Another thing is what if the guys outnumbers the girls? Another I learnt is that never ever park in the middle of the dancefloor. It makes you look stupid and awkward.