I was kind of thinking bout the same thing but you’re right Outlaw_ it’s all about beating AA. I wussed out a few times last week making up a excuse to myself on why I didn’t pull the trigger but the only thing that held me back was myself. I accept the challenge! Thanks Outlaw_ you gave me the words I needed to hear.

Well,i live in a small town(its actualy a city in malawi:) where almost alot of people know each other-don't u see a rumor spreading that am a male bitch,approachng ever1?

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Some things are so SIMPLE.. u just wonder why u never thought of them BEFORE.. (Logicfiles)<--------check 'em .

Today was my 1st day I did 3 approaches (HB7, HB6/HB7 & HB8) and here is how my first one went...

HB7
::Walked Up::

ME: Excuse me I was trying to get some cool sunglasses and was wondering if you knew a good place to go?

As soon as we made eye contact she got a big smile (IOI) and her face turned red (IOI).

HER: I really don’t know

ME: Thanks anyway.
::Walked Away::
I couldn’t imagine that being rumor worthy in any size town. You could also drive to the closest town and start there.

Day 1 Review
I already see the impacted my 1st three approaches have made to my confidence. Even though my 2nd the 2set gave me a weird look when I started talking they didn’t blow me off. My last approach (HB8) I used the 3 second rule and she was very friendly w/ some pretty decent advice but she gave a pause which I assumed she was done and cut her off w/ “Thanks” while she said “And” …she turned and walked off. Lessons learned on day 1 and only one way to go.

Clutchkc i see u homie .. il just have to limit my daily approaches to like 3 & never using the same excuse .. i feel motivated by yo detailed report too.

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You're welcome chief. Keep approaching. Remember, this is Sparta! If you forget, go watch 300 again!

How did the challenge go for you guys? I just got back from a boot camp and one of the coaches said he got good when starting by doing the 30 day challenge. Approaching every single day. I'm going to start this soon as well.

I didn't finish it in 30 days because of time constraints & I started getting laid 2 months later. But, I no longer have AA. I actually do most of my PU when I grocery shop. I use an opinion opener on whatever is in front of me.

I.e. What's a good recipe to cook with _____. Followed up with, ah, you sound like you cook a lot. Etc.

And I'm not talking about cashier's either. To me, they don't count.

Just remember, no excuses. If you approach them without the intention of fucking them, then you just seem like a guy who is genuinely asking a question. And, concerning the challenge, you can stop there. The point is to get over approaching females, nothing else.

Everything else follows this, because if you never approach, it doesn't matter what else you can do.

Keep us posted on your progress.