Skillz, the vids rock, thanks mate

Only suggestion is to film and upload in HD

So basically went in the job Saturday night, I was thinking and was sure I was going to approach at least one girl and get a number, since I was doing my homework with openers and transition routine, hold a conversation, etc.
But when I went in and saw the girls I was totally crumbled, I was trying to hold some eye contact but no one was looking at me/at any other guys. So basically I told in my head, okay I have to do this without eye contact. So I saw a girl there, was my target after some events last week at the same disco and I was thinking, okay I should approach her. She was alone, but my ambition was knocked out, I just couldn't do but touch her hand lately that night when an ex-classmate introduced me to her, but because I was drunk, basically I went there, just nodded my head upwardly, touched her hand somehow, which I can't remember and left.
When I went home I was fucking frustrated, really. So I think I should be more confident in my look and ability to seduce a woman next time, not sure if all this courage will just go off when I will go next Saturday there.

Don't expect to do everything at once right off the bat

Here's an analogy. The tennis serve is biomechanically a reasonable complicated motion. you have the ball toss, the knee bend and leg drive, hip and shoulder rotation and pronation of the wrist. You don't start off right off the bat trying to do everything at once. A good coach will have his students just practising the ball toss to start with getting that in the right position.

Same with pickup. Start off by just smiling and saying hi to girls at a club as they walk past, nothing more. Then gradually start doing more and more.

I'd rather just piss the fear off than take it to baby steps. It takes too long and the holidays are almost over.

Yea! then do it! but pissing the fear off with alcohol ain't gonna make you succeed in the long run...

Wow , Great Post , I will be taking notes here...

I got this from another forum. Good read!

1. If you had a girlfriend or were able to pull chicks before getting into the community, you already are better than most guys in the community
2. There is no magic bullet system that works 100% of the time and NOBODY can get ANY girl
3. Learning and getting good at the game also improves your work and social life in many ways, particularly through getting your inner game handled. Its more than just getting good with girls
4. Keyboard jockying on forums becomes both addictive and time consuming
5. Logistics are everything for sex, pre-planning is crucial
6. The better and more experienced you become your priorities & motivations for what you want to get out of pickup start to change
7. Do not underestimate how far some female friends (hers AND yours) will go to cockblock
8. Game recognises game, often random guys can become instant wingmen
9. Your not as good as you think you are
10. If she says im not interested, it doesnt mean she isnt or wont be interested in the future. The same with knock backs
11. Do not underestimate the power of female self-pride and if that comes in the way of meeting cool guys, so be it
12. Despite overwhelming evidence to the contrary, some non-game guys will think they are in a position to lecture you about 'what your doing wrong with women'. Particularly the ones in LTRs (with extremely average girls)
13. Every single girl you will ever meet will give you the 'all men are bastards/men treat me like shit' story, get used to hearing it over and over
14. Once you stop beating yourself up you get much better. never think that you should be better than any other guy in the venue just cos your studying pickup. All you should be is better than what you were
15. Some married chicks are prepared to cheat unapologetically on their husbands, they will also somehow justify this to themselves that they arent doing anything wrong. they are also usually much easier to get into the sack than single girls.
16. Generally the older a chick is the more fun she is to interact with, has more chat and the less bullshit you have to deal with
15. One weekend out in the field teaches your more than 6 months of reading material
16. AA never goes away, but the sting of rejection pretty much does
17. The guys and girls in your social circle who do the most cockblocking and lecturing you to 'be a good friend' instead of chasing girls usually are also the first to ditch their friends if they like someone and the most vicious should you get in the way of them hooking up
18. Just cos someone seems cool and normal on a forum does not mean they'll not be a freakshow in real life
19. Good wings are hard to find
20. You will always be dying to tell your close friends about getting into game and how it changed your life, eventually one drunken night you will, and you will regret it
21. If you have told any friends about game, no matter how expotential your progress and how hot the girls they see you meet/kiss/bang, they will still not believe it works.
22. There are some seriously weird guys on pick up forums
23. There are some seriously cool guys on pick up forums
24. Asia is a fucking turkey shoot
25. There's always the chipshop
26. A bad night can turn around in seconds with just one interaction
27. Dont try and game too hard, drop the shtick and be more yourself, you'll have internalised a lot more than you realise
28. Your female friends will all claim to know 'your type', even if the last 5 girlfriends you had could not have been any more different.
29. You would be surprised a how many number closes which you thought was a guaranteed flake end up sticking, conversely you'll be surprised at how many solid closes never reply
30. Cos a girl is giving you mad IOIs doesnt mean she wont knock you back, or even not act disgusted that you even had the audacity to approach her. God its such a hassle just being so irresistible to men that they can't not approach me....
31. The best (IMO) and most inspiring material to study is live infield footage. if you can find it.
32. Beware the armchair PUA
33. No matter how much she chases you, she will believe you are chasing her. she will tell her friends this. and yours
33. Your mates are all secretly hoping you crash and burn with that HB10 your talking to
34. Theres no such thing as a 'golden walkup'....bro
35. No matter how good you are, at the end of the day it still is a numbers game
36. The first 6 months you feel like your making no progress at all, then you meet that girl....
37. In the beginning cold approaching is hard to do, later on you'll find NOT cold approaching is hard to do
38. You forget how much you sucked in the beginning
39. Having a number of girls after you and trying to manage them becomes a genuine problem. nobody will have the slightest shred of sympathy for you on this
40. Facebook (and facebook chat) is a phenomenal asset to utilise not only for finding commonalities & instant chat, but thanks to the photos you realise the chick you pulled maybe wasnt all that hot after all.
41. Online dating involves a significant time investment and full of fat birds and damaged goods. tho occasionally you may get lucky but generally is a waste of time
42. You WILL forget her name within the first 2 minutes of her telling you it
43. Guys obsessing over how many approaches they are doing a night aren't getting laid.
44. Most women have phenomenally bad inner game, much worse than guys
45. Non game guys can come up with some phenomenal excuses for why they dont approach, none of which will be the real truth ie they dont have the balls
46. Always have a condom on you at all times
47. Who can knock back the most guys and act like its such an inconvenience is a professional sport played by club chicks in vicious competition with eachother. don't take it personally
48. The better you get the more your standards go up. way up.
49. As your achievements and success build you begin to believe anything is possible
50. This shit does in fact change your life, and potentially more than you ever thought possible. and no you won't regret getting into it

I have literally spent hours tonight reading this entire thread, writing down brilliant tips and finding all the advice given brilliant. Thanks Skills.

I have a question, i would consider myself an alright dancer however i do normally get drunk before i dance and that is probably false confidence, so next time i hit up a club i wont drink too much .

What i would like to ask though is have you ever had like dancing lessons? Or some sort of past experience with dancing? If so what styles etc and what styles of lessons would you say is best for club gaming?

Thanks
GeeCee

Okay. For rule 12 about not leaning in and whutnot.
How do i not lean when im 65?