I've read all of the posts but with little information regarding your relationship with her I can't really you any advice. Tell us a bit more about where things stand between you two. Here's some pointers:

• How did you first meet?
  How often do you see her? (for example, is she in the same class as you if you're in school/college?)
  Reflect on how was the initial interaction between the two of you went. Was it fun, playful or just ordinary?
  How often have you talked to her since you first met her?

Phoenix-uk: "All women want sex just like men, they're just generally less forward about it."[/list]

I usually see her in school only in the hallways we dont have a class together. Our interaction is usually just normal sometimes its funny or playful i guess. I usually say hi at school

Next time you see her, use the "High 5" opener. If she's walking past you in the corridor just stick your hand in the air and say "High five!". You can either actually high five her and then critique her on the high five ("What was that? You call that a high five?) or you can pull your hand away at the last second in a playful manner and say something that conveys DHV like "oh sorry but you can't touch this".

I used to be similar to yourself. Whenever I saw somebody I liked, I would usually just walk by and say "hey". That was until I realised that instead of just walking by I can stop and have a conversation about practically anything! The weather, classes, opinions on current events, pretty much anything. Then I learned to get away from the friend zone I needed to apply the PUA knowledge I had learned i.e. being playful, kinoing, etc, etc.

The one thing I use in the beginning (predominately during daygame) as a fall-back was to ask her if she's ever been to a particular place. For example, I would often ask her is if she's ever been to Spain and I would explain its because I'm thinking of travelling there sometime. I would then DHV by saying I've been to most of continental Europe, France, Germany, Italy, Portugal, Holland, Belgium, Switzerland, but I've never been to Spain. If she's been to a country I've visited I would then have her share her experience. If not, then I would ask her if she recommended a particular country. This is just an example of how you can use life events to DHV - because that's the most important thing when trying to pickup, Display(ing) High(er) Value that separates you from the rest of the male population.

If you want her that badly then you can't be afraid to lose her. Also have the mindset that no matter what happens, you're just having fun and that anything that happens is a bonus because if you go in thinking solely about fucking her or making her your girlfriend, then you won't be able to think clearly and the conversation will go badly.

Here's something I read somewhere (can't remember where! lol):

"You're unique, but so is the next guy. We're all unique in our own ways. But only few of us are special."

P.S. Stay away from texting if you don't really know her that well. Take it from me, texting someone who you barely know will never get you very far. Nothing can replace face-to-face conversation; texting, phone calls, e-mail are only secondary and should only be used to set-up day 2s in my opinion. Just think of it this way: if you take away your cell phone, if you take away the internet, can you still pick up? Of course you can! lol



Phoenix-uk: "Women want sex just as much as men, they're just generally less forward about it."