I agree it does have a negative connotation. So does being a "Pickup Artist" the word pickup implys a sense of attraction based on physcial appearance only. As commpared to meeting someone in church or at school, where the word pickup is never used.

ex·ploit2   /ɪkˈsplɔɪt/ Show Spelled[ik-sploit] Show IPA
–verb (used with object)
1.to utilize, esp. for profit; turn to practical account: to exploit a business opportunity.
2.to use selfishly for one's own ends: employers who exploit their workers.
3.to advance or further through exploitation; promote: He exploited his new movie through a series of guest appearances.

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Do not do that.

Young women break up with boyfriends because they: a) cheat on her b) treat her like shit c) lose interest and don't spend time with the girl anymore. Be fun, interesting, and everything other than those things and you'll be fine.

Gaming a recently single girl is no different than gaming anyone else, with the one exception is you might scale back the harshness of your negs a little bit. Test her out, see what she can handle. If she's mourning the relationship, you can have some spectacular sympathy sex. If she's not mourning the relationship, you can have some spectacular rebound sex. Do you catch my drift?

Just open the same way you would any other chick, say something intresting and build rapport, without a decent report shes not gonna want to talk about anthing personal like her brek up.

when you open just DHV and build rapport with whatever material you want then move on and talk about whats been happing with her recently, shell more than likley mention the break up.

In with case you gotta just shut up and listen, guys think about things logicaly and most would give her all this advice, that she should do this and that and all that crap...BAD MOVE, she aint thinking logicacly, she dosent want advice, shes runnin on emotion not logic, if she talks just shut up and listen, thats something shell love, you could even get a good emotional connection out of it.

right now shes emotionaly vulnerable so its a gret time for some push pull stuff, when you next see her and open make sure you set something up to see her again, weather it be you 2 going bolwling or whatever. by sounds of it you dont see her often so when you need to sort that, if you only see her once a week its gonna be kinda tough to work.

dude the one thing you gotta be really carful of here is falling into the friend zone, if she stats spiiling her guts about her break up and using you as a sholder to cry on yer gettin pretty close to it, if you want her make sure you give some signals of that early on, it will be tough to make a move later if you dont, hell, make a move soon if you can.

hope this helps.

Exploitation oh the poor downtrodden sisters

When women dump a guy and he wonders whether there was someone else

THERE ALMOST ALWAYS IS

and she was eyeing him up,laying the ground work to be with him,and probably screwing the new guy, usually 3 weeks before she dear johned the BF--they rarely close one door unless they already have a doorstopper in the next one

good point herne!, just saw magnums adivce, its a fantastic idea, even if she refuses youve disqulafied yourself so your i a great position to run the rest of your game, a disqualifier would work well here but just be carful you dont get into the friend zone, if you set somthing like that youd be best to move forward pretty qwickly e.g when you take her out do ALOT of keno, youd be able to get away with it though cuz youd have already DQ'd youself and youd be able to get in some really checky negs aswell.

As far as all that moral stuff gos, if you dont want something serious, as long as you say that i dont think yer really doin anything wrong.

Yeah Magnums advice waz top dollar--gonna use it if a situation like that ever arises for me

Yes it's that 2nd definition that I have a problem with, and here's why; If you're in a mindset that you have to cheat lie and steal to get what a girl to hang around you, you're in a mindset that NO ONE WOULD WANT YOU, and you will give off that vibe and you will have small successes but nothing to write home about.

Sure some actions may seem selfish on the outset - eg. brazenly going in for a kiss. But do not be mistaken, this is the job of the man to start things.

And why do you do it? Because you believe that you both are going to have an awesome time together. That's the mindset you need to have to get a really good quality girl and have a good relationship.