A confident direct person CAN make fun of himself, that's the point. Because you could care less what the girl thinks. That's the big difference between direct game and indirect game. Indirect gamers never have a true confidence in themselves. Hence the reason why Mystery still falls to pieces when it dosen't go his way. Don't get me wrong, the MM does in fact work so I'd never judge anyone for following it. Hell, I used to. I just do things differently now.

Great posts! You basically need to assume the attitude that "who cares" or "it doesn't matter" because in reality it doesn't. Think about when you were a kid, before all these social barriers were in place. If a little bitch threw sand in your face, what would you do? I would push that little bitch right out of MY sandbox then call her a poopy head. She might get up and stammer on about telling on me or how much trouble I would be in... Fuck that, she's in my sandbox and these are my rules. You don't like them then go play with all the other meatheads/AFC's out there and boss them around. This is my sandbox and I am king, if you want to come back in and play then you have to get me a juice box.... and make it snappy because you had 30 seconds, about 7 seconds ago.

Remember, if you give someone an inch, they are going to try and take a mile! Escilate your negs parrellel with hers but don't go over board.

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"If it squeals, mount it!"

Yeah, one of my buddies does something similar to what I previously posted, except when the girls negs him.

Girl- "I don't like your shirt"
Him- "Shut the fuck up, no-one asked you."

It always works. He says it seriously, but borderline joking. Giving off the impression that he couldn't care less.

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I see the point and it seems perfect! I will try it! Thanks!

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HAHAHA that´s some great input! And it actually make sense! I´ve tried the that style for a couple of days now and it is working. There are a few odd incidents that didn´t turn out as I wanted but generally it works!

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Checkout 4:45

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Mystery kinda gets owned by Conan... It seemed like Conan out-AMOG'd him... haha

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