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PostPosted: Tue Dec 22, 2009 7:37 am 
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-> "Isn't it a bit soon to be calling me your boyfriend?"

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while it is fun to have witty responses to this statement ("I have a boyfriend"), it is even better not having to answer it in the first place... if you are getting it, you are doing something wrong.

When a girl is into a guy, she will omit to mention it... though sometimes her girlfriend will try to point it out. Like if you go for her # and she is getting ready to give it to you and her gf says something like "ummm, but what about..?" and she then hushes the gf.

or sometimes they won't give the #, but still won't come out and say they have a (most likely live-in) boyfriend... so it is this really strange situation where the girl seems to be into you but is refusing to give you her #. I would just say "next" at this point because it is more trouble than it is worth.

married women however seem to have no problem mentioning they have husbands... last time this ~25yr old thought she was getting lucky, but over a late night snack right before we were about to head to my place, she mentions that she has a husband and a kid...(I don't go there) and then in the car she was accusing me of not wanting to give her my #

The situation where I encounter "I have a boyfriend" is usually on the phone... e.g. if I had been hitting her up before then umm started chasing after another girl. Did that one time with a 5'11" brunette model type, told her I had to get back to my friends. She would walk by and smile at me when I was sitting back with my friends. The 2nd time she walked by and actually gave me a huge one eyed wink. Guess I'm too stupid to figure out what a smile means? ... got it into my head that I wanted a blonde that night, so I guess she saw me with the 19 yr old blonde (and moreover that the blonde was having a great time)... when I phone a few days later she, after I ask her out, she tells me "I wanted to tell you, I have a boyfriend"... when I saw her months later in a club, she was showing signs of interest again.


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I like the original post, bravo mate!

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I like the original post, bravo mate!
Me too but I think he used a routine because another poster replied with exact the same lines.


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Girl: I have a boyfriend...
PUA: Wait... you fall for one of those guys who tells you not to talk to other boys? Geez is this the 1600's or did the whole girlpower revolution just completely went past you?

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PUA: "Well doesn't matter for me so.. thanks for sharing, anyway where were we?"

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Yeah who has not heard "ive got a boyfriend!"
I often freeze up when I hear that, it has fu*ked me so much in the past however...

This is one I used last night, I opened up an 8, she was sitting down, i sat down beside her. I just started asking about how her night was, building rapport. Then her boyfriend actually came back from the bathroom. Once she mentioned he was her boyfriend i used that to bring the conversation topic to relationship and attraction in a partner, using Ross Jeffries style NLP to get her thinking about attraction and starting relationships, and also into that state of mind. In front of her boyfriend she said "i cant believe you are single" and "what are you looking for in a girlfriend"
I replied back with everything she told me about herself "good cook, etc etc"
I # closed with i hope you have some friends that are as beautiful as you, i have to get your number and we can all go out for dinner" and she gave me the number in front of her BF and I gave her mind.

Texting today, hopefully more this week.
She has the hottest mouth ;)

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One of my tricks:

ME: [some opener]

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HER: I already have a boyfriend.

ME: What? You thought I was hitting on you? I already have a gf, I was just trying to be polite.

HER: So, why isn't she here?

ME: We got into an argument and I need some alone time. So, where is your boyfriend?

At this point they will become more interested in you and maybe even want to talk about your gf 'drama'. And the whole bit about asking her about her bf will either have her avoid that question all together to 'help you with your situation' or she will say something like 'its girls night out' etc.

HER: [some lame excuse why her bf isn't there]

ME: So me and my gf got into an argument about me talking to my ex girlfriend, but she doesn't understand that we are just friends now and nothing more can come of it...etc.

At this point she will immediately try to help you and start suggesting things to you.

The point is that she knows that my relationship with my 'imaginary' gf may or may not last, putting me in the 'more singles' market. Now she wants to help me. At any rate sooner or later she will confess to you if she does in fact have a bf.

At any rate, if the rapport really takes off, I try to 'email' or 'facebook' close her and say I would like to talk to her more about this later.

Remember a guy with a girlfriend is much more attractive to a woman than a single guy, even if he is on the verge of a breakup. This tells her that you are relationship material. And the fact that I mentioned that me and my ex are still friends also puts me in a positive light with her as it shows that I can still be friends with exes. And increases your value in her eyes, unless she is a jealous type, then it won't work.

If she suggests to you that maybe your current 'gf' isn't the one for you, she may be actually imaging herself being with you...but only sometimes...food for thought.

Try that to see if it works for you.

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J-Dub
this is good. Later on in the convo you could incorporate the "so whats it like being in the perfect relationship" bit and she will start talking about all her problems with her boyfriend

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Me- O well i thought we were talkin about stuff that didnt matter

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I quite enjoy that. I going to have to test it.

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BTW how many times have you used it?? Just wondering.

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