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First off, I do not have much problems with AA myself... Just to get into the discussion from that angle. Yes, the AA term was invented by the community. That does not mean that it is not true. Yeah, it is true that society and cultural heritage teaches us to be buttkissers, underdogs etc... So thats where AA comes from then? Maybe. Does it matter? NO!
AA is real. So this man loses students and only about 2% of them admit that there is no such thing as AA. Ok, so maybe they are the ones without AA in the first place. Point is that this teaching is very selective, it only fits the ones who have the right background. Natural, yes. But this man makes a point of basically saying, dont be a pussy. Sure, thats what we all try to teach, in different ways. The only thing he does different is to release the students who does need AA coaching.
And, no it is not the ONLY way. I am sure that you are impressed with it and that you are successful with it but try to keep an open mind. It is disrespectful for the people suffering from AA to just tell them that the pain they feel is imaginary. Yes, it is a psychological way to keep you from approaching and it is all in your head... That does not make it any less real.
Ezo
Glad to see that you checked the links out man.Good stuff.
But, If your mindset is right, there IS no approach anxiety, I NEVER HAVE APPROACH ANXIETY. I used to , when I was soaking myself into the Mystery and Neil straus methods. Now, I NEVER feel approach anxiety, and I NEVER FELT IT BEFORE I STARTED READING MYSTERY AND NEIL STRAUSS AND OTHER "PUA'S"
I used to approach in the early days, and I wasn't scared at the least.
Once the mindset is right, there IS no need to "talk alot, neg, use routines, approach alot, None of that stuff, cause you are already THAT SEXY MOTHER FUCKER. From deep inside. His stuff works. Check it out