Mate, all I can say is just keep at it. Approach and open. Get it out of your system. You'll be surprised at some of the results. I've number closed some nice looking girls! I was shaking after the experience cos I couldn't believe how easily it all worked out! Ok, I didn't secure a date after that but that's another story. Practice, practice, practice. It's just like anything in life, the more you do it the better you'll get it. Enjoy the experience and learn from it. Oh, and don't forget to share your experiences as that is what this is all about. You will always learn from what you practice out in the field but you've got the added benefit to accelerate your learning by participating in this forum.