People. Do you guys have autism (of course not) I hope not. There are 3 phases of the night. In the last one we try to get the new f-buddy home. In the other 2 fases. Talk to girls and boys as much ad you want for day 2's. But they also are great people to introduce to other people (da da da da). Introduce these sluts (hyperbolic (if that is a word in English) *caugh* or aren't they) to some people. Create this situation were all girls are there with on boy. Or have a wingman for the night. It's not that big of an obstacle.

I disagree. If you feel like a weirdo, then yeah, you will look like one. If your friends are taller or better looking than you, then its better going to the clubs on your own.

The way I look at it I am out to be out. I am watching a band, I'm having a drink, I'm talking to the bar staff or the people next to me or killing time in a bar before the train home or whatever. Everything else is secondary. I might approach, I might not. That's not why I am there. I am there to have a good time and if there is a girl that catches my eye then I go for it. It's my world, my night and all that other shit is secondary. I really think that approaching becomes an issue when it is the sole reason you're there. To me, THAT is really weird. If I'm there to enjoy myself AND I happen to get some approaches in then cool but that's not why I'm there and I think that mindset shows when I'm out.

Weird being out on your own? Weird is sitting home alone and thinking about.

I think going out alone is pretty cool. I'm a one man guy myself.

But it would do you a lot better if you introduced yourself to a set the first thing you do when you get into a venue. Make friends with them, build rapport. Then when you see a cute girl walking past that group you're in, immediately detach yourself from the set and approach her. If she asks where your friends are, just tell them your friends are busy with work, but you've met a couple of new friends, then you shout over there and call one of their names, and wave at them.



With love,
Matt

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There is nothing wrong with going out alone. This is something I have just started experimenting with and the last two times I went out alone, I F-closed a 30 year old 7 the first time and I kiss closed a 32 year old 9 and I'm still somewhat new to game!

I have found that as long as you are comfortable and relaxed, some girls will actually approach YOU and hit on YOU because they are wondering a good looking stud like you is at the bar alone.

Going out alone is a pretty fun thing to do. Just go out and talk to people and don't try and impress the chicks too much. All the fundamentals are still the same alone as they would be if you are in a gourp. Positive body language, strong confident voice, be confident but not a arrogant dickhead, be funny and mix it in with some sensible conversation.

If your scared about what chicks are going to say about being out alone just say - I was meant to meet a friend here but he texted me and told me he got too drunk or say I was with a friend and he went home earlier and i wanted to keep going out... Theirs a ton of things to say if you don;t want to be seen as a loner.

As for the guy that said guys that go our alone are weirdo's. I don;t agree - heaps of guys do it. I dunno if its not common in your country but alot of guys here in Australia go out for a drink on their own. Some people actually prefer doing it that way.

This is very true, it's a lot more simple than a lot of PUA's think.Glad you said this.