Neither of those really helps me with the response. You guys are crazy that she's not interested. She asked me a Q. She could have not responded or just responded with no question.

She not interested. You will learn that girls are different then guys, and trying to figure out their motives, using your male perspective, is a fools errand.

1. Girls seek attention, approval, and justification thus they will often keep you orbiting even if not attracted.

2. With woman always watch what they do not what they say, they have more of a logical disconnect between their rational words, and their emotional actions. The later is much more telling for females.

3. This specific girls has neither given you control of the frame nor is being compliant, both those are real primary indicators of attraction

If this goes anywhere then tell us we are wrong

Oh grow up you fucking idiot. You are playing so many mind games that she's lost interest. Texting one minute, leaving it for too long the next and to actually text her and say so am I taking you out on Saturday or are you spending another night alone is fucking patronising, insulting and bloody offensive. Fucking jerk. What the fuck made you say that? No wonder she's avoiding you like the plague PMSL.

You already lost control of the conversation at this point. Next time, after the date, tell her don't forget to text me tonight or something along the line. Make a reason for her to be attracted to you and not by begging in this case, like "What are you up to?". Sometimes, you can use high risk techniques such as did you drugged my drink cause you are already making me miss you. If she doesn't reply move on. Be in control, make her text you first to give you a sign of attraction. From then on, you can start the conversation.

I have been on a similar situation once. We go on a date and its all fun and we end up making out heavily and later its all cold over texts. I have come to realize that, girls think that the next time you text her or want to go on a date, all you are looking for is the make out and the possibility of sex.

The morning after the make out, saying something like this might have steered things in a different direction:

"Phew! that was a fun and crazy night. We should do it again, but next time lets slow down and get to know each other better before we go for the kiss. What do you think?"

Ok, Im curious...did you at least TRY to have sex with her during the night of your 'makeout session'...? Was it discussed? Meaning...I dont know of any girl that Ive gotten back to my place that I didnt have sex with or at least try to have sex with. Now, Im not saying that its all about sex...it most certainly is not...especially if you really like the girl. But if there is a MUTUAL 'like' like that, theres usually a talk once youve been making out and are all hot and horny...like, you both confess to really liking eachother, and you would like to wait to have sex because it would be more comfortable, and you both dont want it to be all about the sex....or something like that. Do you understand...? When you makeout, your dick gets hard, and her pussy gets wet...sex is naturally supposed to follow, if it doesnt, theres gotta be a reason. If there was just a makeout session, then she left awkwardly, Im pretty sure I know why shes acting aloof now. A girls gotta respect her man as a man...a man that wants to have sex with her.

And yeah, just talk to other women...other women that youre equally attracted to and interested in. It will make the impact of one less strenuous. Ive been forgetting to text girls back recently, and just not giving a fuck. It works so much better. But dude, Ive been there, and I still occasionally get all thinkiy about shit. Just live your life and fill your time with stuff. Youll relax about it, and in time even get with her.

Actually, this is making me think of a very similar situation that I went through. A girl from work...I really liked her. I cared too much. I thought too much. She found out that she had the upperhand, and ran with it. Its boring for a girl when she knows how much of a tug she has on your strings. But anyway, I got frustrated after a while, and gave up...I sent her a picture of another girls hand on my dick with nailpolish that I bought for the girl in question to wear (I have a hand thing, and the girls I fuck with are submissive and do the stuff I ask.) and left it at that. She FB messaged me two weeks later, with some corny phrase. I responded with the same (she was trying to reel me back in.) but left it at that. Now, six months later, I hit her up on fb randomly, without much thought or care one way or another, and weve now fucked and hung out, and plan to some more. This time around its different....I have multiple girls, and I dont care...she can feel it, and its easier for both of us.

Hope that helped.

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Once again I truely appreciate the advice!

I have bad text game when the pickens are slim. When on a roll it's like "Who are you again?" and sadly it just gets em' going crazy.