That's perfect bro. Just to let you know, we are in a similar situation. I'm on my 3rd day out of a break up from a relationship that was over 4 years. Does it hurt? Yes. But, now it's time to find something to smash. Otherwise, the pain starts to kick in.

Good luck tonight bro. Happy hunting!

Challenge accepted.

I got started yesterday in the mall when I approached 12 girls. It was rough a first, but I started to get the hang of it. The last girl I talked to was a cute HB9, we had a pretty long convo going, I didn't get her number but I'm glad I got started on this.

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Field report for my 1st night in the field in over 4 years.

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Guys don't puss out. Let's do this!

I'm glad other guys are doing this. It was definitely a very good decision to make, as I look back at it. In my opinion, it's one of the quickest ways to learn how to deal with that approach anxiety.

Make sure you guys put yourselves out of your comfort zones, too. One of my approaches was an 8set (still only counts as 1 approach) and I quickly made myself the center of attention and had them all laughing. This will be a great learning experience for you guys

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challenge accepted too. and i would like to hear a field report from this 8 set. U locked in probably right ? and did u isolated one of them?

Maelrann, read my FR up above. I opened a 3 set, that was really an 18 set. It was pretty amazing, but I didn't isolate, because there were only 2 HB's in the group. The rest were UG's. But it was social proof out the wazoo!

There's not much to say. All I did was open and get everyone's opinion on something and made a bit of a joke out of it. I didn't do anything else with the set.

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Just wanted to say thanks for posting this challenge! It has inspired me to get off my ass and start gaming. I will be starting with this tomorrow. Not sure how it will go as I have never tried anything like this before.

Rob, keep us posted on your progress bud. If you puss out, just come back here & know that you're not alone in trying to get out there & get over you AA.

FYI. I started on Friday & I'm at:

Approaches: 18
Number Attempts: 1
Confirmed Numbers: 1 (these are the numbers that actually replied when I texted/called)

The other 17 either blew me out or I didn't have any plans to contact them. These were in a club/bar environment. I will be doing day game this week, out shopping & stuff. I can only go out on the weekends.

Rob, keep us posted on your progress bud. If you puss out, just come back here & know that you're not alone in trying to get out there & get over you AA.

FYI. I started on Friday & I'm at:

Approaches: 18
Number Attempts: 1
Confirmed Numbers: 1 (these are the numbers that actually replied when I texted/called)

The other 17 either blew me out or I didn't have any plans to contact them. These were in a club/bar environment. I will be doing day game this week, out shopping & stuff. I can only go out on the weekends.[/quote]

Yea I will! So I went to the store this morning(at like 2 am) was too excited to start. I did chat up two employees they weren't attractive at all to me but it felt good just to say hi then make a joke and then say have a good day and walk away lol. Not sure if that counts but I feel better having just said something to women.

Yea I will! So I went to the store this morning(at like 2 am) was too excited to start. I did chat up two employees they weren't attractive at all to me but it felt good just to say hi then make a joke and then say have a good day and walk away lol. Not sure if that counts but I feel better having just said something to women.[/quote]

If you approached a woman and spoke to her, it counts

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Think I might try at the park today to there are always women there hopefully I don't puss out .

Let me fix my previous statement. As long as it's a woman that you don't already know or that you have not already opened then it counts. And Rob if you do puss out, just admit and move on. It happens

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I will be trying this in the month on July also, i am just going to try and get enough material as possible and prepare myself for anything a girl can throw at me and know what to say giving a response to control the conversation and turning it into what ever i want it to turn into.

Bad idea, bud. The purpose of this challenge is to get rid of you AA (Approach Anxiety). What this is trying to train you brain to do is to spot & approach in a matter of less than 3 seconds. With not having much material you are in a better position than a person with lots of material, b/c you won't have much head stuff going on (i.e. what do I say when she responds to this).

You can just go up to your targets & say, "Hi my name is, Mercinary. And I just wanted to say hello." That would be the end of what we are trying to accomplish with the challenge. You never know, if you do that & walk off, a woman may stop you and/or tell you to come back.

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