Tip 1 - Detach yourself from society's indicators:
-Detach your previous beliefs that this woman wants you to "be nice" or "provide for her" in order to get sex. Cougars/milfs do not have sex with "nice guys"... they might have sex with "providers" (guys who buy them stuff and pay for things) but there will be little to no attraction there and it won't be fun. Replace the expensive dinners and flowers with demonstrations of your aspirations. Know yourself... having good inner game is paramount with cougars. A good drill to better know yourself is to write all of your goals in life down on a piece of paper. Then write what steps you've already taken in life to reach those goals. Have a good game plan about how to convey those aspirations and accomplishments to the cougar/milf by ways of story telling or some sort of indirect method.

Tip 2 - Open with comedy/be the "fun guy":
-Remember, all the guys her age are old and salty. You most likely can't compete with their money or their status. Don't try... compete on a level of fun and know that you are more fun than pretty much 90% of old guys. Don't confuse this for being "high energy." I just opened a 41 y/o cougar at starbucks with Cajun's "mustache opener." (What do you think about mustaches??? No, on guys)

Tip 3 - Kino Escalate quickly:
-HB-9 and HB-10 Cougars/milfs are probably the only women who value their time as much as you do. If you don't use kino on milfs/cougars you'll loose them quickly. I constantly get this line from the cougars I hit on: "You've gotten me in bed faster than any of the other guys I've been dating for months." The 41 y/o cougar I mentioned earlier was had been on 5-6 dates with 3 different men prior to meeting me and she was getting bored but I was fun. She told me it took them that long to kiss her and that totally turned her off. I've noticed that if I typically don't get a kiss-close within 4 hours, I'm off pace and not much is going to come of a pickup of a cougar/milf.

Tip 4 - Keep her "social obligation world" different from your "happy action fun time world."
-I constantly have hot milfs/cougars who want me to meet their kids... VERY BAD IDEA. The second her "sex world" meets with her "personal world" you cease to exist as a potential sexual being. Let's face it... you'll never be able to be a father to some 15-17 year old kid who is meeting you for the first time. You'll become competition for the ex-mate. Keep your world as the fun world and don't mix the two if you want to score. You want your world to be the world of "less social obligation." You don't want her to neglect her kids while she is in your world... but you want the time she spends with you to be a break from her reality. She's gotta think about a million things to take care of her kids. Take that obligation from her and show her a fun time. Date ideas that are good are active things that her ex doesn't do. Walking on the beach or hiking are really easy and cheap date ideas. Dinner and a movie is a VERY bad date idea. You'll remind her of her ex. If you want to be really fun use one of your early dates to help her make a "bucket-list." Physically write it down on paper. I actually have a corner of my apartment with an easel. On that easel it says "Punkox's bucket-list" (or something like it). It ALWAYS gets a comment when I bring a lady into the appartment. It's a great idea if you want to show aspirations.

Tip 5 - Don't be scared to make a move:
Compliance testing and kino escalation will help you see when she's ready for the kiss. When you get that feeling don't hold back. She wants a man who can handle himself. She's been dating AFC's for a long time and you're the furthest thing from an AFC that she's seen for a long time. You've got that going for you... so go ahead... pucker up... give her that kiss!!!