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set aside two weeks of your time, write down those two weeks somewhere so you don't change them, commit to those two weeks
for those two weeks, remove something you do daily that you don't need to do, something leisurely, dedicate that time for those two weeks to going out (not clubbing or bars, just go outside during the day), take it one day at a time for the two weeks and under no conditions do you take a day off, 14 days in a row, no excuses
go where ever you want, malls, downtown, univercities where ever you like, and just commit to going out, you don't even have to talk to people or try to pickup girls, but it will be pretty damn boring just walking around doing nothing, entertain yourself, at first it will seem really tough because it is something new and you won't feel comfortable doing it, just force your way into the unknown until it becomes known, eventually you will adapt and deal with those feelings of dis-comfort in a different manner
GOOD LUCK
X2! Iv'e been doing this lately and been having much fun. Do worry about sarging or approaching. Just go out, take a walk in a public setting. At first it seems like a waste of time but after a while you get comfortable and create your own fun. Eventually, asking someone a question or opinion becomes a joke because now you've realized how silly you have been all these years. It's cake.
Notice I hadn't mentioned a thing about women? Because it's not about them, it's about you! You man, nothing else matters but the smile on your face!
The other night I got dressed up because my buddies wanted to go out. They drank themselves stupid and never left the sofa. I said fuck it! Ditched them, took a 40 min drive to downtown Montreal and walked the streets myself that night. Ya, I was alone, so what? I had just walked around, no bar hopping. When I came home I felt like I had done something productive and didn't feel disappointed that night when I went to bed. I felt relaxed!!!
CHAT