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I like it but I will say my dance floor game is being a dancing monkey lol. I have the style of I am the most attractive man in the area and the women will come to me. I also have smooth, pop space consuming dancing style(lots of off the toe and heel movement) and then I just look around the dance floor having fun (I love dancing, I can go and do frequently go to the club just to dance with no purpose of hooking up but to dance.) So all I do is dance as the most attractive confident man there, and have fun, this attracts positive attention. After that I read dance floor signals accept and reject by my choosing.
No that is not a dancing monkey, a dancing monkey is a dude that dances in the middle of a circle or jumps around all night with the goal to call attention to himself, or opens a girl with sophisticated, jumping and flashing dances with the goal to IMPRESS...i do something similar as well as sexaddict to what you described, but only from 11-12.30 warm up club time, not all night... I used to do it like that all night but you can get better and faster results with different combinations of approaches as the night goes on...I break down in detail times of the night and best approaches depending on the time of the night...Keep in mind if being seeing too much dancing by yourself all night may come across as not having women demand, also may kill your newness/mystery etc....or why is he alone dancing all night, how come he has no girls dancing with him? questions may come up in the girls head...
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Dancing with them is as simple as making eye contact, smiling, and extending a hand. I will a lot of times spin them for fun so it starts off with an arousing experience. I don't make the dance sexual initially, though it escalates to grinding in less than a song it is a disarming way to getting further faster.
I do not like smiling, i do not like to extend my hand( i just grab only in latin or latin beats, reggetton etc...), if you extend and get rejected it will not be good if women around happen to see it, but you may not have that problem due to your body language and advance level of expertise... I do not grind right away usually i escalate to grinding maybe 3rd song(but depends on the song they are playing, as you will not grind with techno), with some girls grinding and arousal too fast may trigger anti slut defense, case by case basis...
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Incorporating spinning also allows you to do push pull because you can bring her really close making strong eye contact, almost to the point of kiss, then spin her and tease her. Coming back, which means you can spin a girl 3 times in 30 seconds and get to a kiss because you are creating arousal with spinning, playing push pull by getting really close with strong eye contact (and intimate gaze) but pushing them away with a spin when the tension is high, then bringing them back and building it higher.
That is a lot of spinning, but if it works for you keep doing it... I do more spining with lating beats but for example in hip hop etc... That many spins will be uncalibrated with the song..
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Of course my game also has initial attraction involved, and I've also already demonstrated myself as one of the more attractive available males in the area. I am just accepting their interest. Of course I also choose with eye contact and what not who I want to be the most attractive too, some other things, I send specific signals to women I am after (though they aren't always accepted).
My game is as simple as sending and receiving the right signals based off of response curve.
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