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What you should be doing is doing what you want to do, and that is approach her and take her out somewhere and whatever.
What you are doing is acting like a pussy... Like a female that's not confident in her looks and sexiness "what, doesn't he like me? will he reject me if i ask him" bla bla bullshit. You're over analyzing whether she likes you or not, if she's interested, and how much interested and if she's gonna be interested the next time and have you fucked up for not approaching her right then and there.
What is all this crap?
INSECURITY
And female are trained to notice it. And will notice it if you don't start behaving the othar way, the right way.
And that way is not giving the fuck, not worrying if she finds you attractive or if she will find you attractive or if you fucked up with your prior behavior AND ANY OF THAT CRAP, and concentrate on doing what you wanna do and doing it the right way. The way your behaving right now about her is just like a female, and female don't wanna sleep with other females, they want a man in their bad.
In other words stop acting like a pregnant women posting on an internet forum about her issues cause that's making a bitch out of you, and grab your balls and put them back in their spot.
Do you realize now what I am "ranting" about? You are breeding insecurity on yourself. You're punishing your own self. Stop doing it. It's always great to improve yourself and work on it, but worrying about whether she was attracted or not to you in order to approach her is GIRLISH BEHAVIOR.
A confident man that women want will know that he is attractive and will approach women without doubt, and won't show fake confidence by being overly arrogant. Also that man will approach the women even if there is doubt that that particular women may not be attracted in him for whatever reason or coincidence that occurred. If that women rejects this man, he won't take it close to his heart, actually it won't effect him in ANY NEGATIVE WAY.
By what you are writing it sounds if actual rejection happened to you from this women you'd run to your room, jump on your bad, cover your head with a pillow and start shedding tears like a motherfucking bitch.
What I wanna say is grow the fuck up. Leave this girlish insecurity aside.
It's usually hard to that it's a few years work until you get confident in yourself with approaching woman, but sooner you start doing it the better.
If you get your shit together you might be landing women like this even in a months time.
I am not some great fucker of all times, but I approach women I want, and have a decent success with them.
This mindset you have is holding you back. I hope I was helpful and not a ranting offensive idiot on the internet.
+1
Once you master this you become untouchable.
It's like these guidos from NJ they are successful because they don't give a fuck!!
Be social. Be dominant. Control the landscape.