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Seems like how I used to be before getting into the pick up artist business. The only problem about this approach is that you are giving a girl too much and she will seem like she has you in her back pocket. I never want to seem like im in a girls back pocket, I would never compliment her right away, especially like Stylite said, as it would just be average, she probably gets that all the time and she will flake, even if you mention don't flake, your seeming like that average guy, what are you expecting from her more then anyone else? Other guys probably do this all the time, so she wont remember you more then them. This could work on HB6-7's probably or lower, I highly doubt, that this would come close to working with a HB8-10. The only time I would even CONSIDER giving a girl a compliment is if she gave me one, and mine would still be a less direct compliment, but hey it seems good for some, and each prefers something different. Good luck.

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Perhaps in night game at a club it wouldn't be the best idea to use this approach. Night game is basically going up to a girl and just telling her, "Let's get out of here."

During day game, I disagree with both of you. It's all about the attraction that you build with the girl during your initial meeting. She has to feel beautiful and special and you demonstrate this through chivalry, charm, and compliments, obviously to moderation. You don't want to go off flattering her, you just want to sweep her off her feet... think of a chick flick. When you're on the actual date with her, that's when you show that you're an alpha male, that you're confident, intelligent, intellectual, independent, driven, successful.

You guys may disagree but this actually works for me.
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Seems like how I used to be before getting into the pick up artist business. The only problem about this approach is that you are giving a girl too much and she will seem like she has you in her back pocket. I never want to seem like im in a girls back pocket, I would never compliment her right away, especially like Stylite said, as it would just be average, she probably gets that all the time and she will flake, even if you mention don't flake, your seeming like that average guy, what are you expecting from her more then anyone else? Other guys probably do this all the time, so she wont remember you more then them. This could work on HB6-7's probably or lower, I highly doubt, that this would come close to working with a HB8-10. The only time I would even CONSIDER giving a girl a compliment is if she gave me one, and mine would still be a less direct compliment, but hey it seems good for some, and each prefers something different. Good luck.


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Perhaps in night game at a club it wouldn't be the best idea to use this approach. Night game is basically going up to a girl and just telling her, "Let's get out of here."

During day game, I disagree with both of you. It's all about the attraction that you build with the girl during your initial meeting. She has to feel beautiful and special and you demonstrate this through chivalry, charm, and compliments, obviously to moderation. You don't want to go off flattering her, you just want to sweep her off her feet... think of a chick flick. When you're on the actual date with her, that's when you show that you're an alpha male, that you're confident, intelligent, intellectual, independent, driven, successful.


You guys may disagree but this actually works for me.
I used that 'tecnique' before, beeing the goodguy thing. It works, sometimes, but its not as effective as running an actual game.. You have to do something different than the 'bachelolr' touchyfeely.
For starters it's too personal, ur not actually running a game, using your avatar, but beeing more like urself.
To get to the extra little flair in the 'relationship' you try to build, you need to do something different. Do you see what im getting at? Im not as good to express myself in english, and it sux..

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Again guys, this technique works like a charm... I've figured out the key point in the approach and it's that you are romantic and charming. I've used all kinds of openers today like,

"I just noticed you and thought you were lovely and wanted to say hi"

"I saw you in the elevator earlier and I really liked your style"

"I saw you a week ago and I was kicking myself in the foot because I didn't come say hi and didn't want to miss this opportunity this time."

I'm telling you guys, if you want success go with this technique. I'm using these openers followed by the other points I mentioned.

1. HB7, Australian blonde with a cool personality, just met her and hung out for like 45 minutes. We're texting as I write this.
2. HB7, Cute brunette studying
3. HB8, Hot dirty blonde studying
4. HB8, Fucking amazingly adorable Spanish girl. I went right in to her class while the teacher was having a lesson and opened. Big lecture hall so I didn't draw too much attention.
5. HB9, not even 30 minutes ago walking home she walked by me and I went for it. I'm still going nuts over this girl, one of the hottest girls numbers I've gotten in a while.

I'm missing one more. My phone is so packed with girls I just started to delete girls I don't want anymore.

Guys, run this technique if you've been struggling for the last little bit.
I used something similar...

"Excuse me... (watch your body language, make her stop), I just saw you walking past, and I have to say this.. 'you look absolutely beautiful/gorgeous' / 'I really like your style, are u from Montreal? (This is where I made the transition to my Montreal experience)" Gotta remember here... don't talk about Montreal for and hour.. just few seconds... and then bounce the conversation ball back to her, let her talk about her self (shows you're interested what she does).. if she's a Teacher, I would come up with a small few seconds "My Teacher experience", etc.... watch for the keywords, come up with a small topic, if you relate an experience is even Better, "oh you're student here from far away XXXXX town, wow you came all the way here, pursuing your dreams" -- they love someone appreciating or understand their efforts!


I'm new to the game, and whatever I mentioned worked like a charm. I took a boot camp in Toronto, and I'm back in town (Ottawa/Gatineau). If anyone wanna sarge together, feel free to drop me a line.
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I DONT LIKE #4. It shows that you put too much emphasis on an earlier interaction that she wasn't even aware of. AND I WONT BUY INTO THAT FRAME.

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Opener seems legit, however I'm not sold on everything else. "I couldn't take my eyes off you, I had to come over and say hi" that's all good, but you just lowered your value significantly and the frequent complimenting after seems bad in my opinion. After delivering that opening line I would say something like "But there are lots of beautiful girls around (wherever you are) what else do you have going for you besides your looks?" Sort of a neg by putting her in the same category as many other girls, at the same time initiating conversation. It's a good opener, but I'd throw in a couple neg's and some cocky funny routines so that she's not seeming above you.
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i'm gonna try this and let you guys know

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