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There are many different approaches to take to clubs and the dancing environment. Obviously, it really does help if you're a damn good dancer; however, if you're not, do NOT let that hinder you. First, with being a good dancer you naturally will attract attention and, for me, opened a majority of the time. This helps and is fun, but not as fun as making it all happen! One of my favorite openers to use to a set is.. (THIS IS ALL ABOUT DELIVERY! Exude a sense of playfulness and confidence. Be charismatic and brash)

You: "Quick question, sweetheart - you girls are either the most boring girls in the club" *Lean out, smile, be playful - most of all LET them respond* This is where they shoot you a dirty look, dig what you said or shit test you (See the lesbian shit test topic, this is a common answer at times). Afterwards say "Wait, stop jumping to conclusions! Or the most picky! I can't decide!

~There are a mix of reactions. I promise there are none that you can't combat relatively easily. Conversing in a club and on the floor is sometimes difficult. This is quick hitting enough where they will continue to talk or just pull you in. Tried and true, it really does work. Also, have your wing see this conversation start, have him come in and say something about stealing his friend, he's a hot commodity! They'll bring you both in, go somewhere with you or just jump on top of you. Hope this helps or facilitate some inspiration!


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sup pimps.
this is prolly already stated here
im sure i got this from some website or some shit or read about it somewhere. But i was in the club last weekend using some canned opener. and it worked 100% of the time. this is how it worked.....



notice a set of girls (best if 2-5) dancing in circle.

walk past them and get eye contact from some of the uglier and less confident members of the set who are going to try and look at everyguy that walks by.

AFter making eye contact. U the MAC: will IMMEDIantly say "Wow you just gave me the eyes"!

UGLYBZ: "what eyes"???

MAC: "that look you just gave me! i totally can tell you wanna dance!

this will lead to a variety of answers
"hell yea!" - proceed to dance wit her and all her friends ur in
"no wtf" - reply the eyes never lie! then can do the overused "who lies more type of material....
ect.....

basically this will get you talking and makes you look like a boss for acting right away.

However, NEVER lean in to their group! yell and kino there arms as you talk to them. since the club is loud as fuck. honestly you dont want to talk to much just use the opener and start dancing. IF you come across as confident, they will respond to the confident opener in a positive way.


also the whole reason you game the ugly girl first, is she is nevver gamed at the club. HEr hot friend is getting all the atttention. and if you game the hot one first, your just like everyone else. If you get the ugly ones to accept you. you can hang around and make fun of the way the hot girl dances and get the whole set laughing and think your the coolest guy ever.

this approach requires confidence and MC hammer swag, THat can't be touched.

I myself am 6' 3" 220 lbs and look like a calvin klein model. so the confidence in the club comes naturally. However, i think this will work for those who are confident in general

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To the last 3 posters, I appreciate the advice but ive already mentioned a lot of what you said... if you would have had took the time to read a majority of the post...

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I created a nice "Gone in 60 Seconds Routine" for myself. Basically if a see a girl standing around looking unsure or like she wants to dance a bit, I come in with a lot of energy and self belief that "It will just work". I false time constraint with "OK i got to go in second my friends are here, but do you know whats cool about you? Brunette 6 says "What" and I reply with "I love your energy, you look like your ready to have a good time, and I just GOT to get on you on this floor for 60 seconds!" At the very least I get a lot of very short dances with HBs, and I got to lead them to the floor which is kind of DHV.

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juice, you are a dance floor guru!
let me ask you a few questions:

-If you see a 2-3 set of hb8,9's near the dance floor not dancing, what would you do? try to get them to dance, or ignore at the moment?

-how do you approach 2-3 set dancing already with one or two guys?

- do you evr try to pick up not on the dancfloor, example: bar, near restroom?
These are some things I need some guidance on... one more thing, how is your energy on the floor, is it more smooth, or very energetic?

sorry for the multiple questions, thanks alot juice!


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juice, you are a dance floor guru!
let me ask you a few questions:

-If you see a 2-3 set of hb8,9's near the dance floor not dancing, what would you do? try to get them to dance, or ignore at the moment?

-how do you approach 2-3 set dancing already with one or two guys?

- do you evr try to pick up not on the dancfloor, example: bar, near restroom?
These are some things I need some guidance on... one more thing, how is your energy on the floor, is it more smooth, or very energetic?

sorry for the multiple questions, thanks alot juice!

Thanks for the compliment, man... I do appreciate that !

The difference between social situations and dancefloor is that the energy is vastly different man! If those 9s arent dancing then they are observing, they could be all single you need high calibration to see this. You might want to lay back and see what they are doing, are they observing the floor, what are they wearing, are they having a good time..are all key! I have a few set dance moves to help me get the attention I need for them to notice me! One good quote I heard was "Girls just want to be taken"!! So, even if thats not the set for the night, I sometimes go brighten theyre day!

Your 2nd question is the same as the first with a different scenario...What I recommend is that you just take the plunge INTO it ! What I like to do is, if the guys cant dance, then I just stare at them, when the girls notice... I tap him on the shoulder and tell him to follow my lead (Leader of Men), That will get you in the door then its your job to ask the guys simple questions to figure the logistics.. to see whos with who!

Dancefloor pick up is harder than a social one, because you need very high energy and some basic ability to dance! You have to pump up a girls state then use it to your advantage when its time to move her... always use the high body temperature she has to lead her thru the interaction! Yes, I do pick up with cold approach also, but you can find more info about that on the whole forum! I can tell you that if your dancefloor pick up is good then your social one should be exceptional! The true benefits to dancefloor game is that you can social proof the whole area... attract women they will give you the proximity you need to engage.. they will eye fuck and stare at you til you come over and talk to them.

As far as my energy goes its a mix of being smooth and energetics, have a smile on your face and dance to the music in your own bubble! Smile at girls, and other people and let that energy lead to you success

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thanks juice... one more thing, do you talk to the girls your gaming while you dance with them. If so what kind of stuff would would you say and when, (i.e.) when sexual tention is high, or do you just use your face and body laanuguage.

I usually say stuff like: dam u got moves girl! or: lets see you get creative. some shit like that... what do you think


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hey juice, how you doing?

When I approach girls on the dancefloor I always start grinding. That implies that most of the time they don't see me, if they haven't been giving me an approach invitation throughout the evening. At times it works but they are almost always looking around their shoulder and at that point I don't know how to react. However, I wouldn't say that's the main problem for me getting blown out. I think a problem is my energy level or my status. Especially when I approach women two years or so older than me.
Yet, I pretty much manage to be the party on the dancefloor and just have a great time.

My first question therefor is, how would you solve this problem of getting blown out due to that behaviour of them? Simply approach from the front?

I have made the experiences that women who want you to approach will tend to get near you with their back to you. That's why I approach grinding. Also, EC is great if it happens but I always feel like I'm "Value scanning" for people who can make my night fun. You know, like I come across as my friends aren't interesting enough and I need to search for EC.

Next would be, how do I seperate her from her group or friend? I can't properly escalate into dancing face to face because of that, I think.

Anyways, thanks for your post!


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thanks juice... one more thing, do you talk to the girls your gaming while you dance with them. If so what kind of stuff would would you say and when, (i.e.) when sexual tention is high, or do you just use your face and body laanuguage.

I usually say stuff like: dam u got moves girl! or: lets see you get creative. some shit like that... what do you think
One thing I had been practicing lately that worked with a target last night, is doing Triangle gazing to build up some tension between us, it worked well and it got us get really close to each other.... It takes a while to get good at calibrating during dancing to see if the girl really likes you w/o verbally knowing! I do talk to them and dancing and talking gives you a good excuse to be in each other's personal space! So, if you are building sexual tension with just making gestures solely, grind harder, whisper the song thats playing in her ear, and rub the inside of her leg on the top side!

She'll let you know where you can touch her!

The stuff you usually say is just giving her compliments, I push her off and be like "Damn girl" Stop moving like that, or Ill have to make a woman out of you! That builds some kind of sexual tension, needs the right delivery and timing so be aware of that

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Thanks a whole lot Juice!
Im gonna show south beach whats up this weekend!


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Hi iv just started reading the game and sorta new to the whole PUA thing but iv got a technique for the dance floor that iv tried a few times and always worked so far.

Spill a drink on your chosen target! as stupid as this sounds, done in the right way can be pretty effective. obviously a glass of red wine down a white dress isn't gonna look good so it has to be done right. as long as it's only a small amount of something like vodka lemonade or anything else that isn't gonna show up too much.

"o no how stupid of me..... let me take u to the bar and buy u a drink in way of an appology"

Bang your in, not only have u approached and engaged the target but by taking her off the dance floor and over to the bar uv also isolated her :) happy days!

love to here any feedback from this x


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thats a pretty good technique there, not very original, but effective.

however, i feel that your by doing that etc, your letting your alpha slip and allowing them to be in control. plus, alot of girls don't like you buying them drinks, so not sure, although, because its an apology, you can get away with it.

i still think my version of dancefloor game is the most effective because it gets almost everyone's attention.

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In response to the advice to "spill a drink", NEVER do that. That will make you look not only clumsy, and drunk, but also like a goon. Never do it.


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Hey Juice. I appreciate all the time your putting into this thread and your advice has been solid gold. I read the first 6 pages of this thread and this didn't come up but if it came up later my bad.


How do you combat when two girls are dancing face to face and only looking to each others eyes? You see them everywhere and you know they are only doing it for attention as they never seem to be having fun. I've tried numerous things such as grabbing one of their hands and doing a cheesy ballroom spin but it never seems to work. I noticed you said tap their shoulder a few times but this seems kinda random if their not giving anyone EC and just doing their own thing.

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thanks juice24 for all you've done for the forum, you have really helped me a lot i really enjoy your posts!!

but to add, i go clubbing regularly and i've noticed that once you're on the dance floor dancing with a girl, other girls will notice and become much less reluctant to dancing with you. i like to move around and dance with a lot of girls and it becomes easier with each one i dance with

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