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| kiwi-indian | PostPosted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 7:47 am | |
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Posts: 106 | | I understand the concept of disqualification but find it a bit of a paradox. Firstly you're approaching a girl because you are interested in her (a girl will always know this) but then while talking to her you disqualify yourself which does not make sense. Or is that the aim?! Once you've disqualified yourself and suggest you're not interested how then you close in a way that will allow you to see her again?
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| Ruga | PostPosted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 8:27 am | |
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Location: Montana | | disqualifying yourself opens her up more, so if she doesn't think you're trying to fuck her then she isn't going to put up the normal "this guy is just trying to get my pussy" shield. It just takes the shield down for a bit and then you can go at it in lots of ways.
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| mozyFresh | PostPosted: Mon Mar 17, 2008 10:49 pm | |
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Location: bizarro world | | Adding to that: It displays non-neediness and shows you that you're a high vaule guy. Its being unpredictable and telling her she's gonna have to work to get you. Your not doing what every other guy doing. So, there are right and wrong ways to disqualify yourself. Just stay fun, alpha, flirtatious, and it wont matter. She'll feel like she's won you over and be happy that she's got chemistry with a high vaule and interesting guy. She'll start to qualify herself and crave, appreciate your attention more.
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| Introvert | PostPosted: Tue Mar 18, 2008 12:02 am | |
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Posts: 114 | | The concept is that if you need to you disqualify enough so that the shield goes down and she opens up to you, then you demonstrate higher value to requalify yourself with her bitch shield out of the way.
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