| Ok so I thought I post a quick reference guide to the many different types of stares girls have and what you should do to approach her best. I thought I do this since I came across a girl about 3 weeks ago who showed every sign that she WASN'T interested in me but turned out she was. And so I thought I just share what she did and what other girls have done, from my experience, that signify they are interested.
So here are some of the common stares I've come across:
1. Looks at you, smiles, maybe waves and turns away like she accomplished something.
Pretty self explanatory, she likes you. Usually these stares come from the kinda girls I DONT like but still something nice to experience. WHAT YOU SHOULD DO: talk to her if you like her I guess, if not just enjoy the fact someone likes you. And this point you have the upper hand. You can fuck up a few times and still have her crazy for you.
2. Looks at you every time something new happens (ie someone tells a joke, she fixes her hair, ANYONE talks)
This type of girl is the kind of girl who wants to impress you. I like these types of girls cuz they usually tend to be the best girlfriends. You know the kind that gives you massages and says I love you like 50 times a day. WHAT YOU SHOULD DO: She's the kinda girl who likes alpha males so you gotta be an alpha male. Acknowledge that you notice her and just go about your business and keep being cool. Approach her when you like and if she does something you like, like accept your offer to take her out, treat her good. BUT if she does something you dislike, like says she can't go out with you yet, then punish her. This may sound harsh but if you’re a true alpha male then you cannot tolerate such behavior.
If you don't know what to do next always ask yourself, "what would a dictator do?" If you guys ever seen the movie Downfall you’d see my point. Hitler treated those who where loyal to him with kindness and yet was a HARSH bastard with everyone who didn’t follow his orders. Hitler was an Alpha male, so you best be one too. I know Hitler isn’t exactly the first person you think of when you think player, but Hilter had bitches all over his ass!
3. Looks at you and looks away SLOWLY
Doesn't mean anything. You probably just made some noise and she looked at what made the clatter. WHAT YOU SHOULD DO: Way too much, this girl is just another girl, not interested. Tough luck.
4 Looks at you and looks away IMMEDIATELY
This one is the complicated one. Because she either likes you or she REALLY REALLY DOESN'T like you! A girl who stares away immediately after you look at her is either shy OR freaked out by you. The only way to know she isn’t freaked out by you is by finding out if she wants to talk to you. This was my dilemma. This girl looked like she didn’t like me. Almost every time I would make eye contact with her she would look away SO fast I started to become freaked out by her. And so I took it upon myself to investigate whether this girl found me attractive or found me appalling. WHAT YOU SHOULD DO: In my case I had to delve deeper and learn whether she likes me or dislikes me. So I went up to her and simply said "hi". She said "hello", and I asked her for her name and started a conversation. I knew within a few seconds she liked me. She seemed happy that I came by, and nervous as well. We chatted for a while and in less than 10 minutes I got her number. It took that long to get her number because I had a good conversation.. for once.
So anyways these are the sort of stares I've received when I've dealt with girls. Part of the reason I wanted to write this post is because I know that when I was younger I used to misinterpret what girls thought. SOLELY based on how they looked at me. Many rejections could have been avoided had I just known the different types of stares girls have.
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