You finally worked up the courage to approach women. After much rejection you finally start to get some phone numbers and then it starts.
The flaking. You thought the interaction went well and that you had a great connection with some of the women you talked to. You text that sexy Latina who told you she wanted to hear from you and you text…no response.
That attractive blonde who you approached in front of her group of 4 friends and talked to for 30 minutes, you text her and nothing!
So now your thinking the brunette who you just know you had a great time with has to text you back. You text her and she does reply but when you ask to hang out with her….crickets!
If you have gone out and gotten phone numbers I’m sure you have been through this scenario a thousand times. A lot of dating coaches will tell you that the reason you are getting flakey numbers is because the woman wasn’t attracted to you enough, you didn’t qualify her enough or you didn’t build enough rapport.
That is only PARTIALLY true. I have been in the game 10 years and I can assure you that my attraction, qualification and rapport game are on point. Of course you always want to work on making those parts of your game better and better but once you have that down and women are flaking then what is the solution?
The solution isn’t to reduce flaking but to OFFSET it. What most dating coaches won’t tell you that pickup is RANDOM because you are dealing with women. Women are ruled by their emotions so that plays a major part in their flaky behavior.
Despite this fact you can still get consistent results even with the randomness in pickup. Sure having longer and quality conversations with women will reduce flaking however that isn’t always the case.
I have spend an hour with a woman and never seen her again and then I have spent 10 minutes talking to a woman and had sex with her 3 days later. That is the unpredictability of the game. That is why I laugh at the idea of a solid number, when you are dealing with women nothing is solid.
Here is how you OFFSET flaking, you simply approach more women! Simple right? I hear a lot of guys complaining about flaking but when I asked them how many women they approach on a weekly basis the answer is usually between 10 to 20 a week. That simply isn’t going to get it done.
Pickup is a NUMBERS game with SKILL. You must do quantity in order to get quality. In other words you must approach a lot of women consistently in order to gain the skills that you need so that you don’t have to approach so many women in the long term.
If you are complaining about flaking that simply means you aren’t approaching enough women thus your skill level of women isn’t high because you have a lack of experience with women.


Here is the plan to help you OFFSET flaking.
1. Approach 50 women per week minimum. (Approach the hardest sets first i.e. mixed sets, large groups, make outs, dance floor sets)
2. Try to last 2 minutes in each of those tough sets.
3. Break down your nights each time after you go out. Write down three things you right and three things you can improve. (Record your sets via audio or video)
4. Number close every woman who you spark attraction with.

When you do those four steps consistently you will see a REDUCTION in your flake rate. Notice I said reduction not elimination. No matter how good you get you will always have some women that will flake on you, it’s the nature of the beast.
However you will have streaks where no women are flaking on you and then you will have streaks where it seems like every woman is flaking on you. In game and life you can neither win nor lose forever as long as you are stick with it you will achieve your goals with women and dating.
I have a free conversation and text guide that I’m SPAM. Send me a PM and I will give it to you. Wishing you much success with women.

I see this a little bit differently. Yes, flakes happen but there isn't a lot of talk about reducing the flakes. Even this post doesn't really address this issue. If you want to reduce flakes there is an easy way to do it.

1. Don't do anything without demonstrating intent. She has to understand that you find her attractive and that's why you are talking to her.
2. She has to know why you want her number. Get her number because you guys are going out in 1 or 2 days. None of this "you're cool, can I get your number?"
3. Do something else with her the moment you get her number. Grab a cup of lemonade, a pretzel, sit on a bench or just walk with her. If she wants to continue that time with you, that means she is interested.
4. Don't wait to get in touch with her. If you met her that afternoon text/call her that evening and confirm your plans. Ask her if she's doing anything right now so you guys can meet right there and then. She's more likely to be excited about meeting you while it's fresh on her mind instead of waiting for other issues in her life gives her an excuse to not meet later.

My flake rate went down the moment that I started planning a day to meet up on the spot.

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I would say both statements are 50% true, I do find it becomes less random if your instate and more predictable


I've had alot of problems with getting numbers and then nothing, however I would argue that insta-dates are the best way to deal with this instead of approaching 50 women a week.

This is the absolute truth...basically, #3 on my list.

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