Hi everyone,

Okay so during the weekend I went out to a bar and a night club on separate nights. At the bar I went to I went completely alone. While I was there I talked to two chicks. The first girl I approached was sitting alone (She was way to hot to be sitting alone). Thats what made me approach her. I had a 10 minute convo with her and It was really smooth, from what I read her body language showed interest (Smiling, playing with her hair, involved in the convo). She ended up walking away shortly after and I didn't see her for the rest of the night. The second chick was dancing along side of her friends but by herself, so I just went for it and we danced for a bit and I bought her a drink and talked for about 10 min alone. She ended up meeting her friends and things went decent. Afterwards it slowly died down and I didn't see her for the rest of the night either. How do I hold the attraction, any tricks you guys use at the bar? How do I take it to the next step?

For the night club scene, I went with a decent sized group of friends. I did have a good time with them but I tried separating myself so I could meet new people at the club. The club had very loud music playing so I know having a conversation wouldn't be the right approach. I danced the whole night (Better than average dancer) and danced with a few girls. I got rejected about a good 5 to 6 times. (My standards are high so i don't shoot for anything less than a HB8). What are some good approaches at the club? Whens the right time to pull away from the dance floor?

Well to keep them engaged, you have to connect with him. You will know she likes you when she gives you full attention. If you feel the energy is decreasing, you can:

- Leave on a high and come back later (Make her miss you a little)
- Take her number and route a booticall
- Ask her to join you for some food or another bar (Bounce her) - once she complies, your chances for sex dramatically increase if she willing to leave her friends with you to 'fresh air'

But if you feel that intense feeling inside you that you have to entertain her to 'Maintain attraction' then you have already lost. You've probably had a previous interaction where the vibe is flowing and you do not feel the need to think of anything to say, try to go for that...

But also at the end of the day, there are some girls that will happily vibe with you but have ZERO intention in sleeping with you. The friendly girls are the most dangerous because they can be big masses waste of time. You really should look for the sexually obtainable girls.

How do I know if she us sexually obtainable?

- Make a move, the truth will ALWAYS be revealed when you make a move. She will instantly tell you with her body language or verbally that she is or isn't interested. If she complies, tell her to come join you for a drink, outside fresh air, get some food, to your place to check out your paper clip collection

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So I agree with most of what the other guy said. But Friendly girls are the best. Every girl has a breaking point, and unless your out of town (because your time is limited to do ur thing) All it takes is for you to build a strong enough connection. 10 minutes is really all you need. Anything extra is a blessing to play with. Cold reads are the truth. You must always have cold reads in your arsenal; with negs and teasers ready to throw out there when she gives an opportunity. Cold reads like the pick a number 1-10, I made a few up like super powers for a day, top 5 favorite movies, and the best one ever I learned is the Cube. If you have the Cube and you time it right, you can meet your soul mate easily. If you guys want me to detail these let me know if can put them in abother forum

That makes a lot of sense... I agree it's better to get turned down sooner and move on than waste half of the night.