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PostPosted: Sun Sep 08, 2013 10:24 pm 
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Scenario:

at the college party.....

Me: hi friend(female), can you introduce me to your friend(HB9)?
Friend: sure.

outside the area...

Friend: Hi Mich, this is Jason, my friend.
Me: Hi......
HB : hello..
(AWKWARD SILENCE......)

And that's all I can say....... what else can I do or say to the to start an interesting conversation if my wing only introduced me that way? lol. :mrgreen: it happened to me a lot of times that is why I want to learn how to handle these kind of things.

Help me please.

Thanks.


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 08, 2013 10:44 pm 
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compliment then qualify her, you already have good value coming into the interaction. Your compliment should be related to why you wanted to meet her so she can best get her bearings, this will also help to avoid the awkward science that is caused by ambiguous situations.


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 08, 2013 10:45 pm 
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"How do you know each other?"

Then whatever response she gives you, dig deeper into the topic she mentions.

This is otherwise known as.........a conversation.

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 09, 2013 4:11 am 
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The reason you don't know what to say likely is simply a fear of saying the wrong thing.

A fear of saying the wrong thing is a product of desiring a specific outcome.

Get rid of the desired outcome or the perceived importance of the desired outcome, and you are free to say whatever you feel at any given time.

In other words, if you don't care 2 shits about whether this girl likes you, doesn't like you, etc, then you have no stake in the game, and can be completely comfortable to talk about whatever you want. You're loose, comfortable, just like you are with your best friends or family.

Learn to believe that on a brand new opening like this very little is actually at stake, because it is the truth, and likely you will find it much easier to begin a conversation in this format.


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