how can i show DHV to a girl I sit with in one of my college classes? The only way I can think of is sparking conversation with another female in the class while she see's but being new and still an AFC that could back fire and make me look worse.

Any ideas?

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No, start a conversation with the girl you want and tell her you find her very attractive. I don't go into an interaction trying to 'DHV', all I care about is expressing an interest in sharing that woman's company at some point, or at least communicating that I am more interested than just a friendly chat, because I am.

Please stop with all this PUA stuff. Its a load of crap when you realise you're already a great person that doesn't need PUA tricks in order to get an attractive woman. Just be honest about how you feel and what you want, both with yourself and with her. It will take a few false starts and could not quite work out right at first, but you'll get the hang of it. Oh and read Alan Roger Currie's book 'Mode One' and forget about the whole 'DHV', 'neg', 'AMOG' crap - I have an I'm a lot happier because now when I approach a girl I am not stuck in my head and not thinking about 'techniques'. I either go in with the hope that she'll reciprocate my interests, and in the event that she doesn't then I can just as easily move onto the next attractive woman who has caught my attention.

To the replier: go straight up and tell her you're attracted to her? Mate... It just doesn't work! You need a top level of confidence to do that and be successful - and 9/10 times, be of a similar level of physical attractiveness to her.

I do agree though, that you shouldn't spend too much time trying to play by the book exactly, and just use them a little bit to bring the best out of yourself.

There are lots of things you can do to show your worth to this girl: being smart and confident in class! I was a philosophy major and being good at philosophy demonstrate my value because the girls thought I had something interesting to say. You can talk to other girls, but it really won't show you're interested in her unless you're talking to other people, whilst trying to constantly pull her in to the group (making you the social centre).
You can make conversation (about the class, the weather, anything!) with her and invite her out to a party, a night out with your friends, for a coffee, anything! If you've seemed normal, made a joke (take the piss out of the teacher! Easy!) you'll get her number and you can ask her out.

I had an issue with girls not understanding how I felt about them - mainly because I was always too scared to make a move. But, if you go and make conversation, and are confident, and ask them out for a drink and take their number - on the FIRST conversation - girls know what you're upto. And you don't have to go right out and say you're attracted to them - they're thinking/hoping that already, but they don't wanna be told it!

Sorry mate, but this is a bad idea. I did exactly what you said for years.

The results it got me were the following:

1. Girl will walk away
2. Even worse, Girl will have a relationship with me... but she'd be the one in control of the relationship.

Both cases occur because when I did that, the girl saw me as lower value. Except in the first case, girl thinks to herself "ewww don't want this chump, he's a loser".

In case 2, the girl thinks "he's nothing special but he seems like a sweet guy. I can make this work with him, but on my terms"

i think we are missing the point. The girl I'm talking about thats in my class, i know. We have known each other for quite sometime, even dated a little back in high school. Anyway, we have just re-connected through this class we have with each other.

I was wondering how I could DHV too her, like i said maybe start a conversation with another girl in class while shes around ( we sit together in class) but that could turn out bad. Any ideas?

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Anyone can be confident with a full head of hair. But a confident bald man - there's your diamond in the rough.
- Larry David

In classroom environment, you can try-

• Playing C&F on professor's specific words. Do it in low volume, so that only nearby mates could listen & not the professor. Don't get caught!! It would express that you are not that next guy who's too serious about studies/being a bookworm. But, make it in a subtle way, not too harsh, in a fun way.
  
  Grab the syllabus. Read the text which the professor is going to teach today. Do it just for today. Answer the questions quickly in class. It'll show you're intelligent & chicks love intelligence! Bingo!

Here & there, you'll get a hell lot of opportunities to use C&F in classroom like if you miss a class, you can her ask here for notes & then do C&F.
For e.g. If she asks you to give a class(which they usually ask after you show your intelligence - alpha quality), tell her that you don't give free public class with a charismatic smile on your face to indicate you're being playful, ask her to come to your home to get taught & from there on escalate. Build comfort & things will roll on automatically.


How could that turn out bad?? Remember Jealousy is a powerful emotion you can use for your own advantage. There is nothing wrong in talking with any girl in the class. Infact, it shows you are more social & outgoing. Moreover, try to be friends with her male friends(if she has). Remember Mystery's statement - "You own the men, you win women".

Good Luck!